I think I'm going to try vaginal birth instead of the c-section I had originally decided on I'm so terrified tho

oops. they give you a spinal and the only thing you feel during is pressure.

and with a c-section they give you

yes if you have a choice go with vaginal. but in my situation I didn't have a choice. with baby being breach it was very dangerous for him and for me to do vaginal.

@aaquino, that's why I wanted the epidural and pain meds and out there's actually more pain when it comes to having a csection with all the meds they give u during the vaginal u barely feel anything from the many stories I've heard

@chipmunk, Lol I have zero pain tolerance so I'm terrified I still have a long was to go and I'm terrified I can barely handle a paper cut lmfao 😂 I'm such a baby!

I was to til I did my maternity tour and realized it wasn't as bad as I made it out to be in my mind @aaquino

You get to choose what you want to do? they won't let me choose here 😑😠 I'm terrified of pushing a baby out lol I want a c-section

@angelmommy, I've heArd that. I've heard people say if they could do it over again they'd do vaginal because of the healing

well my son was breach that's why I had one. but they can always take an ultrasound right before to make sure. that's what my doc did. I had my son at 31 weeks so they were keeping a close eye on him anyways. but if you have to have one its not that bad its just the recovery and healing process that sucks

@angelmommy, @lovelyonejess. they are just start to worry she'll be breach so that's why I had been leaning towards the c-section

vaginal is ten times easier than a c-section. I had a vaginal birth with my first and healed quickly I had a c-section with my son and it took me weeks to heal.

c-section is not easy ... maybe at that time u won't feel anything but later u will hurt n won't be able to do anything ... takes longer to heal than vaginal delivery ... I didn't have a choice but I wouldn't recommend it to anyone ...

I did it natural. The pushing just felt like I was super constipated and I'm not sure how painful an epidural is.

@misscrystal, I'm worried about the pain of pushing and contractions plus the epidural

Don't be! Dilating is the worst part and pushing didn't hurt at all for me.