I was 9weeks when I had a miscarriage some people hurt my feelings when they say I didn't necessarily lose a child because my baby wasn't formed but in way I feel like I did lose a child . I will never get to hold smell touch my baby. I keep thinking that if I was still pregnant how big would I have been what would I been having a boy or a girl. 😓 I still feel like I lost a child . I never got to hear a heart beat