Just curious if any other mommy to be's feel like they've gained way too much weight. At my last appt my doctor said I gained 11 pounds in 4 weeks.. she didn't seem too concerned because she said it didn't seem like I've gotten all that big. Just been feeling really bummed about my weight. I know it's for the baby and I'm literally growing a human but still.. :/
So this girl i am kinda friends with asked me if i feel like my face changed after having babies, because she felt like hers did majorly.. so i said other than my double chin & weight gain, no.. and i told her she looks great after having two kids! and she goes on to say - "don't be offended, but you LOOK like a mom ." 😳 she was trying to make me feel like shit. I feel like I look the same.. & the way she said was obv meant to offend me 😡 like, she just made me feel like complete crap.
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
I feel sad about how much weight I've gained. at my first appointment I was 104 lbs and now 9 months pregnant I'm only 120 lbs. I feel like i didn't gain enough ): but I eat..I'm just small built..I hope that's why /; I feel bad like my baby is gonna be too small..): anyone else going through this or did before?
Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Jackie B·
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Don't feel bad I've gained 40 pounds lol 😓 thankfully my doctor hasent said anything only WIC did. But I still have 6 weeks left.
Kayla·
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I'm 35 weeks and was 150 now I'm 190 and losing weight
Jackie·
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You look good! :)
this is mine.. got them mixed up the one on the right is like 12 weeks and the left is from 4th of july..
Jackie·
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@shortizzie, I know I'm sorry. Yeah my face has gotten chunkier and my thighs that's actually where I have stretch marks already. I wait for the same thing.. like I keep seeing all these girls that don't even look pregnant and they're further along than I am. I know every one is different but still!
Jackie·
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@sexychocolate, yes during the first 3 months I was so self conscious because it literally looked like I had a beer belly and not a bump. now I actually have a bump and a pretty big one at that lol
renea·
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I know. I had lost so much weight and was happy with the way my body looked naked. Now I am 3 months and it just looks like I am fat because I gained the weight back so quick
Jackie·
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@sexychocolate, I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels this way. I always see all the moms on here posting about loving pregnancy and don't get me wrong I absolutely love what I'm doing but it's hard for someone who has always had insecurities about their body to gain so much weight and just keep seeing that number. Going to the doctor is the worst because first thing they do is have me get on the scale and sometimes I just wanna cry.
renea·
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i feel the same way. i gained 10 lbs in two weeks.
Jackie·
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@shortizzie, ouch! Okay you win lol. but for real that sounds super painful. well hopefully your bundle of joy will be here in 5ish weeks and give your knees and back a break :)
Jackie·
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@reaganmommy2015, damn girl I'm sorry to hear that. I actually just took my 3 hour test Saturday so I'm hoping for good news tomorrow at the doctor!
Jackie·
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@shortizzie, lmao see sometimes I already feel that way I will say it comes and goes sometimes he hides in my back so my belly goes down a little especially in the morning. And yes @kartersmom I'm hoping when I have him I can breastfeed asap!
Martee 💋💋·
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
@jackie1124, I know it's hard my morning sickness went away at 22 weeks so I have been trying to make up time but now I have gestational diabetes so lol
Jackie·
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@reaganmommy2015, oh that sucks :( see I also never had morning sickness. I just instantly felt hungry all the time!
Kenisha·
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breast feeding helps with losing baby weight. but if you went to the gym regularly you should be good once you start back
Martee 💋💋·
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I was 200 before and now I'm 208 but during the first few months I had really bad morning sickness and lost 10 pounds or so and I was overweight
Jackie·
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@kartersmom, yeah I think with being 5'8 140 wasn't over weight not to mention I was going to the gym almost everyday. and then when I got pregnant I slowly stopped going because I was so exhausted. I don't kmow I just hope I can lose it and get back into shape after I have him.
Jackie·
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@shortizzie, yeah I meant 140 my bad lol. it just sucks cuz I know I've got about 12 weeks left :/
Kenisha·
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Yea it depends on your size before. I've only gained 3 lbs so far but I was a bit over weight when I got pregnant
Jackie·
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I was 130 before and now am 180 give or take.
Martee 💋💋·
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
I think it depends on if you were underweight or overweight when you got pregnant