Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
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Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
Judge me all you want BUT wtf is it about pregnancy that makes me so insanely flirtatious and turned on by women. Like..I don't care if my man ever touches me, I just want to be with a woman. 😅 He's always said it was okay, but..I've never found the write one to chill with. Small Towns suck..
Been at my new job for about 3 weeks and haven't told them im pregnant. I need to cause some of the stuff they want me to i shouldn't be doing but I don't know how to tell them
Jessica·
do it. breast is best. I'm planning on breast feeding for at LEAST a year.
Alye·
В ожидании первенца
Those shouldn't be reasons not to breastfeed. Either way you're gonna feed your baby a lot. Either your gonna use bottle or boob. Your nipples will hurt at first but if you're doing it right then you'll be fine. Just get some nipple cream to soothe your nipples
Mishell Dickson·
В ожидании первенца
my mom breast fed and so did my sister, i also plan on it because it's healthier and creates a different type of bonding with the baby then when bottle fed. i plan on feeding 1 year on boob and 2 year through pumping
Alexia Goble·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
@jessica408, a Year ? By Then My Baby Will Be In Daycare . My Nurse Said Do It For a Few Months or Maybe Only While I'm In The Hospital . I Was Lost & Confused . But Idk . @alye27 , I want To So Bad But I Don't Take Negativity From Others Well So I Was Just Lost In The Moment . But Thanks
yummycake·
Мама троих детей
yes the experience of breastfeeding is a challenge. u might be feeding every hour or less as the begining. and ur nipples will crack but maybr not bleed while they get use to being used but that is why there is nipple cream and lactation nurses to help ur baby latch right. but over all its a special very satisfying experience. when baby nurses u get the nights to run more smoothly then having to prepare formula. i never had enough milk so i had to supplement during the day but at night all i did was breastfeed. it made life easier less colic...than my eldest who didnt get more than a month of bf. so please expect it to be challenging yet very rewarding u may end up loving it.
Alexia Goble·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
@yummycake, so ? your baby didn't throw up because of the two different milks because you didn't have enough ?
Alexia Goble·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
@mahaylasmomma, yes my mom breast fed to and so did my aunt .
Jessica·
yeah, a year. I don't think I'm going to put my baby in day care that early.
Jessica·
the reasons for NOT breastfeeding were pretty lame. don't listen to those people. do your own research
yummycake·
Мама троих детей
no both my kids supplemented. since the beginning i tried feeding just myself but my milk supply was always low...with my daughter it didnt come in fully for a week. uggh so frustrating...but i hear there are stuff to help this i was not aware of it back then
----·
I breastfed for 15 months. The beginning is hard but it's worth it. You're going to be feeding your child every few hours no matter what. In my opinion it's easier to breastfeed because you don't have to make bottles, or clean them, you just take out your breast and baby latches on. The soreness in your nipples will go away after a couple weeks, use some lanolin nipple cream. My daughter never got sick until she was 20 months old and I believe she is so healthy because of the breast milk she got.
yummycake·
Мама троих детей
i always fed from both breast then gave formula after.
yummycake·
Мама троих детей
my feedings were almost an 45 minutes....every hour or two. so it gets easier if u got more breastmilk. but for me it was very time involved.
yummycake·
Мама троих детей
but i was a stahm...by four months i was working selling avon and still managed for two more months but it was exhausting so i switched fully to formula and regular foods. he was weaned from bottle when one and half ...the night time bottles sucks.
yummycake·
Мама троих детей
but when baby turns six months u can start switching ounce by ounce with water....until baby only drinks a bottle of water. its not good for their teeth.
yummycake·
Мама троих детей
get the baby food in them...feeding them at the beginning is just as time consuming. as what i was doing...so prepare for that lol.....and get ur eldest to helo out only way to keep house happy is to keep eldest occupied and feeling like ur a team
Alexia Goble·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
thanks every one .. I'm only 17 so I really needed this .
Madison Barnes·
В ожидании первенца
I'm doing it for a year... and cracking and bleeding is NOT normal, no matter what anyone says. find a breastfeeding counselor to assist you, I have one and we have already been talking and I haven't delivered yet. already feel so much better about it! there's so many wrong&right; ways for a baby to latch on so do some research and def see if you can find someone who studied in that area like I have. and breast is best! there are SO many nutrients that formula simply doesn't contain. good luck❤
Alexia Goble·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
@lynleighs_mommy, thanks 💕