So someone just messaged me and said "Pregnant + not married = slut or whore ? Or both ?" I'm sorry,…
So someone just messaged me and said "Pregnant + not married = slut or whore ? Or both ?" I'm sorry, not everyone in the world that is pregnant has to be married, and if you're not that doesn't make you a slut or whore, even if you're single. I don't understand how people can have that sort of mindset when they know NOTHING about you or your situation, let alone why things are the way they are. People need to learn to keep their mouths shut and stay out of other people's business. It shouldn't matter either way. Pregnancy isn't a negative thing, it's a blessing. I don't know why people look at it as you being some trashy ass person who spread your legs open to the world and just let any and everybody in because you're carrying around a human being. It's one thing to be with one person, get pregnant, planned or not, and so on from there. It's another to be with multiple people, constantly sleeping around, not giving a shit or having a clue who the father is. Those are two completely different situations. Stop looking at it as the same thing. Women go through a lot and give up a lot to create and give life to such a beautiful soul, no one deserves to be treated like that. It's great if you're married/engaged and have a little family💍, there's also no shame in being a single parent or just in a basic/meaningful relationship. All that matters is what's best for the baby. I'm done. I just needed to say something because I've seen it way too much and it pisses me off how rude and heartless people can be.👊😤
Temesha·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
wtf
Dana·
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Wow.
Kyndall·
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That's what I'm saying @temeshawalker
Kyndall·
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It's truly sad and ridiculous. @danamarie
Krystin·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I'd report to preggie could be a fake
Dana·
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Yeah that's just not right. 😳
🎀Jacqui🎀·
are you kidding me ?! it takes a heartless and plain stupid person to even say something like that . it shows how pathetic they are that they went out of their way to get your # and text you that how immature . I'm sorry you even had to read something like that a baby is a blessing and a beautiful thing and nothing less! goodness people these days!!
queenmother·
If it was on here report them immediately preggie doesn't put up with that! I'm sorry you had to hear that. It's no ones place to judge anyone's situation. I know a girl who got pregnant being young and dumb sleeping around without protection who's a better parent then some married couples. Your relationship status doesn't make you a good parent. It's what you do after that matters
Tracy Pimentel 💋·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
What century is she living in?
----·
Ugh! I hate people that think like that! I see people who do it the "right way" and are divorced a few years later. Thanks but I'll take my ridiculously happy non married relationship that I have over a married one any day. It's just a piece of damn paper! Why does a stupid piece of paper dictate how my life should be? Me and my BOYFRIEND just bought a house. That to me is more important than being married. We are happier then most married couples I know!
Kyndall·
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It wasn't on here, it was on another social media app i use but i definitely reported them on that @queenmother @wyatts_mommy_0106 and i don't even know why people would even think to say something like that. I try to ignore it because it's been said to me so much by random people and from people that i know. I don't carry myself in that type of way or have ever done that. But I'm not gonna stress about it because my son is all that matters and is truly a blessing.💙 @msscruz0530 and i agree 100% with that @queenmother
Courtney·
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wow, that's crazy. But what a slut or whore really has to do with anything though ... in some cases things happen not like we want them to but they do and maybe she who is married and pregnant or already had a child might be a slut or whore and just wanna bash someone else to make her self feel better ugh I seriously dislike a person like that who so quick to judge a book by its covers without even opening it and trying to read it
Krystin·
Мама двоих (младенец)
wow that's horrible ignore that ingorence mama u know u aren't what they are saying keep ur head up don't let anyone bring u down
missing6user·
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well said 👏👏👏
Kyndall·
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I don't even have a clue, both guys and girls have said things like that to me. I just wanna knock some sense into them😪 @tracynangel and nothing wrong with that.! It shouldn't even matter, you can do the same exact things married couples can do minus the ring and paper. People want to create this sort of utopia of how things are supposed and the right way they're supposed to be done and if you don't follow that they want to bag on you and put you down. Happiness and the baby is all that should matter, everyone deserves to live their own life how they want to @klachappelle
sarabrewer04·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Are You freaking kidding me just because you had a baby out of wedlock does not make u a freaking whore... You sleeping with random men and don't know who the baby daddy is would make u a whore.... People are so ignorant now days...
missing88user·
Мама троих детей
she needs to be slapped how dare u
missing88user·
Мама троих детей
tell her too keep it moving
Erika·
Wow the nerve of some people. Many are quick to judge. With my first I was a single mother. It just didn't work out between her father and I. We live in another state and she still talks to him. We separated when she was about 1. I met much husband when she was about 3. She's now 7 1/2 and I'm expecting my second baby with my husband! I never married her father but that doesn't make me anything! This time I did want to do things the "right way" but that was because I personally wanted to. People need to just worry about themselves smh.
Temesha·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
i would definitely have went off and NEWSFLASH just cause that person is married engaged dont mean that it cant end amdh