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Im soon to be 18 weeks what can I do starting now to have a baginal birth I really want to avoid c section

Im soon to be 18 weeks what can I do starting now to have a baginal birth I really want to avoid c section

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calliesmom

jamie boxМама дочки-младенца

@franchesca, my mother didn't dilate either and my grandmother had CS too but everyone is different I had a vaginal birth, I was so worried I wouldn't and couldn't dilate and I didn't really do anything out of the way either though to have it but I pray your future delivery will go smoothly !

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ak16

ak16Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

They can give you meds to try to help. They helped me get from a 1 to 4 but no where else 😑

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franchesca

FranchescaВ ожидании первенца

@ak16, my mother does not dilate so I won't be surprised if I don't either but hopefully I do

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ak16

ak16Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

But all you can do is try just try not to completely shut it out so you don't get too disappointed if everything doesn't go as planned but hopefully it will 😊

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ak16

ak16Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

My mom had to have c-sections and I tried to have normal birth with my first but I wouldn't get passed a four my body just couldn't, (same with my mom) I think we are just too small none wise and with my second I had a c section for safety reasons but it's not that bad. I like having them, knowing they will be ok and won't be in stress.

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klachappelle

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@franchesca, I definitely understand being worried, everything about childbirth is nerve wracking.

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missing117user

missing117userМама дочки (8 лет), беременна (35 нед.)

@franchesca yes ma'am I was hoping for a VBAC but my body had other plans. I have a placenta previa(completely covering my cervix) so I have to have another c section. this was my first time ever hearing of a placenta previa so you never know what your body have in store for you. you can plan a vaginal birth but if emergencies comes up you have to do what's best for you and baby.

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franchesca

FranchescaВ ожидании первенца

@ak16, thank you I really just want to break the long chain of c sections but let's see what happens in December

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franchesca

FranchescaВ ожидании первенца

@briandavisjr819, yes you're right I can only hope all goes well

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franchesca

FranchescaВ ожидании первенца

@klachappelle, thanks for the advice I am worried because in my whole family only one person gave birth naturally

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franchesca

FranchescaВ ожидании первенца

@dollfacenanii, thank you i always try to walk but then again it's unpredictable but I will do all I can

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klachappelle

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@dollfacenanii, I stayed active during my pregnancy and I had a CS with my daughter, she was positioned wrong and I apparently have a narrow pelvis which isn't made for vaginal births.

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ak16

ak16Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

I agree with @klachappelle you can plan and hope all you want to you never know how your baby or body is going to be at that time

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missing117user

missing117userМама дочки (8 лет), беременна (35 нед.)

there's nothing you really can do to avoid a c section bc anything can happen during labor

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klachappelle

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Nothing really, you'll just have to wait and see how your labor goes.

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dollfacenanii

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Walk as much as you can stay active! My doctor told me to do this cus i want to avoid csection

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?