so my 3yr old is throwing a fit I took my friend to get a ten min touch up and he started to wrestle…
so my 3yr old is throwing a fit I took my friend to get a ten min touch up and he started to wrestle his brother I told him more the three times to stop he didn't so I popped his butt to get his attention it didn't work so I grabbed him and we are now sitting in the car he was throwing a fit screaming kicking crying hit my window with his ds game .I told him to stop he didn't I ignored him then he was arguing with his brother and told his brother shut up b**CH which lissed me off he has heard this word before and we have stopped swearing in our house months ago and he has just randomly saying cuss words I talk or yell him don't say that naughty word etc how would you discipline a three year old ?sending him in his room doesn't work when its just me home, corner doesn't work spanking does nothing,so his step dad is going to talk to him when he get home but thats late ate night will he even remember misbehaving hours later? how do you go about discipline for a toddler I'm way to soft on him and with the new baby coming any day now (37 WEEKS)I need help ASAP on what to do he knows better he doesnt say those words anywhere else we don't use them its driving me nuts ,HELP/ADVICE PLEASE being this pregnant doesn't make it any easier dealing with him gives me contractions constantly having to get up and down to deal with him and or even raising my voice...I'm just to soft on him and his brother and I'm having a third boy at that I feel because they run over me now it will be worse don't want the new one picking. up these bad ways ...what would you do they only listen when their step dad is home
Martee 💋💋·
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
He needs to learn that his behavior is not good I would take away his DS that he has when he starts crying you need to talk to him and tell him that he can't speak to you that way my son is now 9 but I still need to do that to him
Sarah krashin·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
I'm going to I'm sure he will throw a fit as I try to talk but owell he has also learned to lie from his brother ...he's been acting out the last week or so @reaganmommy2015
Martee 💋💋·
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
My son hit me when I was literally about to give birth to my daughter with a little vacuum cleaner in my back all because he was acting bad and I was taking away his toys I know he might be to much to handle while you are really pregnant but his behavior will get worse if you don't do it now
missing9user·
Мама троих детей
Since I have gotten pregnant , my kids whine and throw tantrums . My oldest is 9 and still does it . Omg it's so annoying .
Martee 💋💋·
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
@mrsmoore, he knows that life will be different very soon kids pick up on this stuff my daughter who is 4 is the same way she does something bad she runs away from me cause she knows I can't catch her
Alyssa·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
I struggle with my 6 and 3 year olds, too. It's no fun, and especially hard to be a firm disciplinarian when you're pregnant. He just needs to understand that you mean business. No telling him three times to stop, you give him one warning to cut it out, then straight to "maximum" consequence, be that going to the car, or time out our whatever. At that age, they push the absolute limit and see what they can get away with. Good luck to all us pregnant mamas with 3 year olds!
Becky Blue·
sit him down, ask him whats troubling him. there might be a triggor to his bad behaivior
Sarah krashin·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
yea my kids are 3 and 7 and I have had just no energy he's out of hand now and needs to be controlled, I'm going to try my best at this drives me nuts I'm just to soft at times sometimes I think because he's young he doesn't understand or won't even remember why he's still in time out so I always cut it short @annlou
Alyssa·
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
Yep, I'm right there with ya. My girls were great, then I had two months of horrible morning sickness and they did absolutely anything they wanted. Getting back on track is killing me. ps. I think 3 year olds understand actions even if they don't understand our words. They can learn. @mrsmoore
Shawna Santistevan·
Just start taking things away. No going outside or no playing with friends. Game consoles gone take away toys. I would have to say when my parents took things away it made me behave because I just wanted my things back
Sarah krashin·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@isabellasmommy2015, he can't really explain that to me yet it just turns into random talking but he was upset because I told him no wrestling in the shop he continued to do so so I took him out which upset him even when I asked him don't say naughty word he will say I didn't I said this which is not what he really said . sometimes he can tell me what is wrong but doesn't always fix the problem if he can't have his way 😟
Becky Blue·
have you tried counseling? ik u prob cant afford it but some insurances pay for it. somthing might be happening at school or with his peers.
Sarah krashin·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@santistevanmommie, yea I hated that as a kid he won't be happy but I already told him no outside today or games
Sarah krashin·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@annlou, that's how mine got out of hand as well morning sickness 2 months straight and just let their behavior slide because I was just to sick to deal with it,and I agree getting them back on track will be hard but its what needs to be done thank you so much for the advice
Shawna Santistevan·
It sucks when your kids are mad at you but you gotta do what you gotta do to get them to behave. It'll get better tho
missing217user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
he might be acting out because he realizes that a new baby is coming and feels like he won't have as much attention as before... try sitting him down and talking to him about it and assure him that he will not be neglected and you love him just as much as you love the new baby
Sarah krashin·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@santistevanmommie, it does he my baby but this behavior can't continue ,and thank you I hope so
Sarah krashin·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@squeakpipsmommy0607, that's what his step dad is saying but I never believed it because my oldest never did that when his brother was going to come into our lives,I'm going to have a talk with him and try to get him involed and hopefully ready?
missing217user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
yeah... every kid is different, my niece acted that way when her little brother was born