📣📣📣❔❔❔❔❓❓❓❓❓📣📣📣 ok so I am sitting here watching the business of being born and they are talking about being induced...... none of it is good and its freaking me out!!! any ladies have an induction and how did it go? I am being induced tomorrow 😀😀👶👶💙💙
I've had 2 so far and they went good and fast once I got my epideral.
my other nurse...from my second birth made me hurt my abdomen. this time i was perfectly sedated...and she said...i needed to get off the labor bed and move to the bed i was gonna be in for baby and mom...i couldnt move my legs..and she insisted i wasnt trying to move..so i strained and strained and tore something inside my abdomen...which hurt for years...her words were u need to get off because other women need ur bed. uve had ur baby. she also made me drink water because my urine wasnt clear it was yellow...i was so insulted...and alone with her. so just wanna share. dont let people do this to you.
yeah...please dont be a pushover. even tell ur hubby my story or whoever takes care of u to stick up for u. if the staff is negative towards u. when ur in labor sometimes its hard to be assertive.( i was young and too shocked at the time to understand she was ruining my birth)
wow!! so it sounds like to me to the nurse is what made your experience bad and that is not cool!!!! @yummycake thanks for sharing girl I am hoping my nurses are nice my hospital has a very good rep so I hope so
i took a while like twenty three hours in bad labor...it was ok for me cus i was in mommy zone. but i had a nurse giving me a hard time. she wanted me to stay on mynleft side because baby could get the same oxygen...and she kept telling me i couldnt dilate enouhh and she was gonna tell the doc i needed a ce section...she also yelled at me for not obeying her about staying on my left side. when i told her i needed more epidural meds she denied them saying my contractions were showing as small. and she thinks i was over dosing on meds and thats why labor was so slow. it turned out the monitor was broken. because i was the one who told her. my baby has crowned...u need to check...she didnt want to and in the end when she did...my babys head was popping out . thats when she knew my monitor was not working. my doctor came asap...and ge was like..wtf ur monitor is broken i cant help u push..u gotta time it when u feel it and tell me. i delivered her...but she ripped me ...my doc had fast hands..he sewed me up good and had her set up quick. the nurse just stood to the side of the room...she did take my epidural off....and i felt my baby being birthed...plus the pain of having the placenta pushed out. so my advice is dont put up with ne nurse nonsense...get another one asap if she is mean to u.
ya that's true!! @edomke ,thank you girl I am trying lol just so anxious
Well just know it wouldn't be a very good show if something didn't go wrong. I'm sure they just show bad ones but most c sections go as planned. Try not to worry too much!
thanks!!! all the people I know had good inductions but I am still a little worried
My induction at 41+3 resulted in an emergency c section because my body was contracting less than a minute apart but I couldn't dilate past a 5 my daughters heart rate started dropping and she got stuck in the birth canal...my sister had 2/3 of her kids from being induced and hers went smoothly
Organ donor
I was at the DMV today and I noticed that nobody... literally nobody said yes to being an organ donor when asked. It is really that uncommon? If you're not, what are your reasons for not being one? I am aware this is pretty taboo to talk about.

“You look too young to be a mom!”
Or how about …
“You have a BABY? No! You look like a baby yourself!”👶
Oh wait, here’s a good one …
“Are you the nanny, ooor … ?”
“No, yeah I’m his mom,” I’d reply. “Yes, I am young,” I’d agree.
Considering I got pregnant straight out of college, I was certainly on the younger end of the parenting spectrum. (No one was more surprised than me, I assure you.) And yet, I wasn’t exactly a teen mom. I wasn’t juggling school courses and motherhood, like so many s...
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her ...


Before u become pregnant think of this
Do I want to be uncomfortable as hell for 40-42 weeks?
Do I want to be in horrible pain for up to 14-16 hours even longer
Can I handle pushing a big ass head through my vagina
Can I handle this with no pain meds(sometimes u can't make it in time)
Do I want to go to the hospital 10x before I'm actually in labor.
Because inducing your labor at 32-37 weeks for your own selfish needs or getting a csection to do it the "easy" way is just plain selfish and FYI a...

#mombassadorchat
Moms,
Today's #mombassadorchat is with @believeinbuddha on crafting!!
Here's her bio:
Hi there! I'm the Buddhist Mama. I am 27 years old and from central California. I have four children; Ava, Ella, Zeus, and Harley Quinn. I am no stranger to struggle and have seen my share of ups and downs in life. No matter what the universe throws at me I like to stay positive and take everything as a lesson to be learned and wisdom to be gained. I like to focus on what truly matters...
thanks!! @kristen_91