My mother smacked me in my face twice yesterday & threw things at me ,oh & also swung me to the grown with my face to the floor . & im suppose to except her apology & move on ?
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@mmmirage, yes , I'm in a terrible situation & it sucks but all I can do is pray
@kie123, wow im sorry. That's really messed up. How can u not love a baby, esp Ur own blood. U basically rely on Ur mom now. Tough situation 😰
you are soooo very welcome. I really pray things turn around because this is a messed up thing to be involved in, pregnant or not
@ce5ce you gave me a lot of great information & im putting it to use ! Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
@mmmirage, he lives with us because he's parents are racist & don't approve of me or our unborn child because it's destroying their family tree
@kie123, can u go live with your boyfriend?? That'll teach her a lesson and she will come begging back for U!
My blood is freaking boiling just reading this. This woman had deep rooted issues and you need to leave asap. Find yourself a social service near you and let them know, Matter of fact let your doctor's office know your living situation is not safe, you are being abused mentally and physically. I'm not saying lie but last that shit on as thick as possible because they'll help you. They ask me these questions every time I go to an appointment. If they don't help you then go to social services and tell them the same thing about your living situation and pregnancy. You will be out of there before you know it
@Imstillhungry, im trying to , when I was younger yes ! But now that I'm older it's just a lot more mental abuse
@mmmirage & that's what I said to her & she just says sorry ! & I promise to god I'd never do that to my child
This makes me so angry...what kind of mother does this?? Please stay safe. You really need to get out of there. Does she do this kind of thing a lot?
@kie123, ok so that means she can do it to U??? Nooooo! Hell no! B like if u went thru that, why would u put me thru it!? Tell her U would never do it to your baby!
@mmmirage, trust me I'm trying ! & her response is , "I know it's not right but your grandmother has done the same thing to me when I was pregnant with you"
How can she do that to U!!! Ur pregnsnt on top of that. Get away from her!
@Imstillhungry, yes ! & that's exact what I've been saying to myself is that she has serious issues! & it's not fair to me , my child's father or our unborn child .
Wtf. To think someone wouldn't hold a grudge against someone else for attacking them when they're pregnant is delusional. Yeah, forgive...but that doesn't mean you forget. She has proven that you and your baby are not safe around her. She's lucky you didn't press charges.
I wouldn't forgive my mom if she laid hands on me especially when I'm pregnant. that's just crossing the line and she tried to hurt your boyfriend, yeah double no. I hope you figure things out and I'm glad she's okay!
well that's your decision ! she was in the wrong ! so the steps you chose to make from this point forward is all up to you! do what you think is best for you and your baby ! 😘
@ashgarcia12, your right ! & now she cries because she knows I'm gonna get up & leave & never come back like I did before but this time for years ! & she'll never see her granddaughter
@kie123, that's ridiculous ! dont put up with it ! neither you nor your baby need that!!!
@ngujen, yes she's fine , I made sure to protect her as much as I could yesterday & she's moving around today as usual
@jaixi, thank you , I appreciate it & im gonna look into that asap !
look for housing assistance there's programs where you stat in a women's shelter for 3 months and they give you a house and assistance. u know people who have done it and ended very well. yes your pregnant but it'll be worth it and it's safe there. and I understand it will be hard to handle but you will be handling much worse and harder things you got this don't let it hold you back
@ashgarcia12, at all ! I'll be 20 weeks tomorrow & now you wanna put your hands on me ?
@kimberlysing, yes & she tells me sorry & that I need to stop holding grudges, but like you said it's not holding grudges !
@karnawest, yes ! Exactly what I wanted to do but if I continued to fight back I'd be scared to lose my daughter
@elenaj, it's crazy because my whole life I thought the same thing & all my friends & family say she's jealous of me too , but I'm her daughter not the girl down the street . That's fucked up
that's not holding a grudge at all. you're basically emotionally distraught! have you told her you want to be left alone for awhile?
@jaixi I completely agree but it's just gonna take sometime because that's a hard pill to swallow
I'm sorry I know that is your mom but, you don't put your hands on me! Especially with my child inside! Uhm, my mother or not her ass would have been bleeding or in jail. I would damn sure never leave my child with her!
@Kimberlysing, I agree but she won't stop trying to talk to me . I just wanna be left alone I'm still physically and emotionally messed up from yesterday & if I tell her that she'll get an attitude & say I'm holding grudge
Yo momma crazy . That's sad . I would never hit my pregnant daughter . She probably jealous or something .
yes. but you NEVER forget it. you can't carry around negativity with your baby. you distance yourself and your child. she's not safe to be around if she toss in ya ass and you being as pregnant as you are. its completely unacceptable.
@elenaj, yes & I did only once , to defend my self & she tried to hurt my child's father for trying to get her off of me
you always forgive but never forgey. you guys need some time apart.
I wish my momma would. "I love my momma to death, but I'm grown Af put your hands on me like that I'm hitting back" its respect and you pregnant. It would be hard to forgive her but I would but I would never forget and fuck with her with a long handled spoon.
I couldn't have did that . I would have slapped her Ass back .
I'll pray for you too 😟 I hope your mom changes when she sees the baby. Try to start saving up n get Ur man to move out with U if it gets worse. Protect ur tummy from Ur mom. That's what scares me