So I finally had a talk with my sister. (the one who was causing all the drama)
I told her that she is my sister and I will always love her. I will always want her in my life and I will always miss her when she isn't. But she has to treat me better. I don't want anyone who is constantly disrespectful to me in my life setting that example for my daughter. I told her I know about her fertility struggles and that I know it has to be difficult to want a baby so badly and not be able to get pregnant as our family is swooning over the pending arrival of my daughter. But her being jealous is not a fair reason to treat me, my mom, my hubby or my baby poorly and it will not be tolerated.
I also told her about my fertility struggle and the things I have done to help and told her as long as she is being decent to me I would be more than happy to try to help them with what knowledge I have.
I'm not sure it'll work but she apologized and I do think it was sincere.
On that note she is almost a week late on her period and is very hopeful that this is her time. My sister and her husband want to be parents so badly. Please cross your fingers for them and hope they get there miracle this month 💗💗💗💗💗