I hate when the person you love the most lies , when you would do anything for them , die for them and They can simply lie to you ? Even after all you've done .... does I love you and Trust mean anything in a relationship any more ?
I'm so sorry you have to go through that. It sounds a lot like my situation only I didn't take my sons father back. I met the girl my son father was cheating on me with like a month before I found out I was pregnant. All throughout my pregnancy I was verbally abused and constantly reminded by him that I wasn't good enough. It wasn't until my gender ultrasound that he started saying he wanted to be involved, which was crappy of him because he demanded I get an abortion the day I tested positive. I thank God every day for giving me a straight head and the ability to tell him no. In your case, I'd say it's time to kick him to the curb. As the saying goes, "once a cheater always a cheater", and I've yet to meet a reformed cheater. Plus you and your daughter deserve so much better than that negativity and deception. I'm sure you don't want your daughter falling victim to the same type when she grows up. Don't give her the image, I'd say leave him. @mom y2b051115
I'm so sorry to hear that ): your son will know how to love unconditionally and be faithful honest caring and know how to be truth telling . My fiance left me a week befor my due date he didn't want to face reality and I thought we would never get back together ... I ended up hooking up with an old friend after I herd from our mutual friend he was dating this girl,he claimed to have nothing to do with ... Well a week,or so after she was born he seen pictures of our perfect princess and left the girl . We got back together and have been together since he herd from OUR mutual friend about my hook up and he asked me what happened and wanted in fully details ... I told him everything and when I question him about the girl he denied her completely... Last night he finally confessed . I think he cheated on me with her a few days befor we had broken up anyways I know that he left me and we both did what we did but when he asked I told him the complete truth and he lied . He said he lied to protect OUR relationship ?... He also told me that he was so hurt that I slept with another person and made me feel like shit when he had done the same thing . He wants to marry me and his exact words today were so if I do something stupid you can't leave me .... um so I guess he thinks he can only be a father and a fiance / husband when he wants and get up and leave me to fuck other girls and then come crying back to me?... I love him and I'm to kind and I just don't know how to say enough even when I know that it's no good anymore.... Not to mention this girl he was with I had met her two days befor he left me. Also she just got an abortion because she said he got her pregnant and now she's pregnant again and don't know if it's his or her new boyfriends @jaspersmama61315
The father of my son cheated on me for an entire year. He never showed signs of cheating and I didn't find out until I moved out of his place and after I was 6 months pregnant. I feel your pain. :( loyalty, honesty, and trust seem to have been lost in our generation. I'll be teaching my son to be honest and to trust when it comes to relationships.