this Saturday my aunt and uncle are dropping off my 7year old cousin for the night as they are travelling to a wedding…

@mama_bear I appreciate it <3

@14emathews, I'm always here if you need to talk ♡

oops @xxkawaiinekochanxx

@sweet_pea thank you so much :) I've worked for everything up to this point. almost all of my sons things have come from my paychecks unless they were gifted. the big furniture items my parents and I split the cost. I don't like to spend money on unnecessary things either. yes, I would love some new shoes or a new outfit lmao what girl wouldn't? but at the end of the day, I can't be selfish and keep money only for me. I have a family now amongst other responsibilities that need to be taken care of. I'm blessed to have what I have and what I see coming in the future. I'm very motivated to get back into school and obtain a degree. I've switched career paths, but I'm sticking with this one :) life is about jumping hurdles and some are quick to achieve by jumping over them and some of them I'll smack my leg and fall on my face and have to start over. @mama_bear thank you so much dear :) I've been through a lot in life so far with mental health issues in my past, but I've grown so much stronger since then. I agree 100% that God doesn't give you things that He knows you can't handle. @xxkawiinekochanxx I try real hard not to let negativity get to me. I guess its easier when its a stranger who says something as my reaction typically is, well what do they know? but having it come from family is just rough on the heartstrings. I don't think she realizes how hard things are going to be in a few weeks and she just has to put me down in preparation for what she thinks is bound to happen which is failure. we used to be super super close when we were little, but not anymore. she's just not who I used to know and that'd kinda sad for me to say. at least I still have loving support from my man and my parents. I don't need a lot of supportive team members anyway. I'm okay with what I've got :)

I would, that's just downright mean 😞 and I'm 19 having my daughters little sister. Don't pay the negativity any mind, it is your life after all. Don't stress, I'd just get away from her whenever she starts talking like that. I support you. We're gonna prove the negatives wrong.

@14emathews, all you can do is stay happy. God doesn't ever give nothing you can't handle♡ you have my support :D

Omg are you serious?! You are more successful then a lot of girls I know at our age and be proud of that not a lot of people can say they own a car, and a job including a place. I think you are a wonderful example of what a responsible woman should be pregnant or not. I am happy to hear that your parents are accepting of you being pregnant I mean shoot you already have a lot going for you at 19 and they probably think this won't be any different they know that you can handle the responsibility thick and thin @14emathews

@mama_bear I hope so but she won't be around for long as she's leaving out of state for college. its just hard to have someone who is family and supposed to be supportive be so negative

@14emathews, I'm pretty sure she will change and be a great aunt once your baby is born. just try to ignore her.

@cjw1095 agree! I didn't ruin anything...yet lmao. I have a job, my own place, a car, I'm going to school in the fall. I think she's just mad that my parents are more accepting of my pregnancy than they ever will be about her sexual orientation. @mama_bear thank you dear. I honestly can't stand her. she's really two faced. @sweet_pea I agree as well. she likes to pick me apart at every open opportunity and then wonders why I never want to hang out with her. and its not like I'm not taking responsibility either. its going to be hard, but my man and I are still together in a strong and healthy relationship and she's just....grrrrh....bugs me

That's ridiculous and disrespectful. Being at the age you are is better then being 16 yrs old or younger 😠

She outta all people should be supporting you. she's the one acting like a child. don't let her put you down. you don't need that atm

smh I hate that freaking statement.

. no we didn't ruin anything.... we just some extra love along the way

@cjw1095 exactly! it just seems that every chance she sees she has to bring up the fact that I'm 19 and pregnant and how I'm too young and basically messed up my life, yet I keep my mouth shut when it comes to her being gay. it honestly irks me

she needs to sit down somewhere.... who's to say he will have a gf or will be ready to get married by 25