Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Meet my son ladies! He was born yesterday at 5:06pm weighing in at 6 pounds 2ounces 😍😍😍 I had an emergency c section with bad preeclampsia! I just want to think all my friends that sent me prayers and positive messages & comments! I'm completely in love with my bundle of heaven! I love you my Erik Ray 👶🏼💙 born July 22nd!
Next child Speaking to my partner tonight about having our next child i ideally don't want another for a few years yet but he turned around and said only on one condition you have a c section ( i got a 3rd degree tear with Oliver) I actually don't want a c section but he said he won't have another child otherwise am I being unfair ? I loved my birth with Oliver i loved that feeling him being placed on me, but he said if I don't have a c section the next baby won't be with him :(
I guess everyone is different with different pain tolerance because my recovery for my c section was a breeze I never filled the medications they gave me and was walking down to the NICU to see my son the next day
I am super beyond scared and nervous 😨. We found out a few weeks ago that the doctor who performed my fourth c-section 🗡, doesn't recommend me to go through with me having my fifth c-section 🗡. Because after I had Baby Mac my incision inside opened up and my doctor said that it's still not completely healed. I have been scared and nervous 😨. My husband 💏 at first said " whatever you decided honey I support your decision " Then last week he woke up 👀 and said "Let's get the doctor who performed my first emergency c-section and see her opinion on this " I was so happy he wasn't putting it all on me . So fast forward to today 🌞 at 1pm we are going to meet with our doctor who performed my first emergency c-section. We don't want to terminate our Rainbow 🌈 miracle 💕 but we also don't want to lose me . We have other children 👨 👩 👧🤰🤓🤓🤓 to consider. Please absolutely no Negative comments this is NOT 🙅 ♀ a easy decision to make. We are hoping for Good News 🤗🙌 but we are preparing ourselves for the bad news too. God 🙏 will be with us during this difficult decision and he will guide us 👣 in the right direction with God all things are possible 💓
Laqueesha 😋😘·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
I've never had a csection, but I have heard they are painful.. But it took you a year to heal vaginally then maybe a csection would be the best choice for u and your baby.. cause I read where you said it would probably take longer to heal this time. a year is toooooo long.. when on average it only take 6 weeks for a woman to heal after csection or vaginal birth.. But its Whatever you feel comfortable with.. Good Luck Love
Hayley Marie Libby·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I had an emergency c section and with the epidural as an anesthetic for my lower tummy all I could feel was a tugging vacuum sensation...I was up and walking the next morning (c section was at 9:43pm) around 11:30...I was in a good bit of pain but as long as I kept the pain meds in me for the first week and a half I was good after a week and a half I didn't need the pain meds and could manage without..I'm 4 months PP and had a weird numb sensation in my lower belly that will likely never go away (my mom had a c section with me and she still has the numb feeling)
Karna Marie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@queenquee Thanks ma am! I talked to my mom too (She gave birth seven times) she was in the delivery room with me and she is kinda learning towards the c-section too because with a toddler and a newborn I need the fastest recovery time
Laqueesha 😋😘·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
you're welcome and that's what I was thinking also. By this baby being your second. you need a healthy fast recovery cause you will have 2babiea to care for now. and a year is just way to long. When u can be healed in 6weeks or less.😄😄
Karna Marie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@hayleymarie hmmm I know both are going to be painful and have some recovery time... I just hate to get cut if I don't have too... But I'll probably end up being cut either way
Hayley Marie Libby·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Honestly I was deathly afraid of my c section especially since I had NO choice they had to get my daughter out ASAP but it really wasn't THAT bad just remember to take your pain meds regularly and you'll be able to get up and move around just fine...the numbness in my lower tummy isn't painful it's just a weird feeling ill have to get used to but the important thing is delivering a healthy baby in the safest way possible for BOTH of you
Karna Marie·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)
@hayleymarie Yes exactly. In a perfect world I would deliver vaginally with no problems but that may not be the case. After my episiotomy all I was given was ibuprofen and told that because I was breastfeeding I couldn't have anything stronger is that true with a c-section as well?
Hayley Marie Libby·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I was given Vicodin and ibprophen and i breastfeed