I feel like my boyfriend is being so selfish.. vent rant, whatever may be long! okay do when I got…
I feel like my boyfriend is being so selfish.. vent rant, whatever may be long!
okay do when I got pregnant we moved from tx to ca for better living conditions for Soph anyways we've been here almost a year and there is so much unemployment my bf didn't find a real job until March it look 7 MONTHS to even find a steady job now they cut his hours he will be lucky to get 25 hrs a week that's like a 350 check BEFORE taxes and 150 child support that leaves us with MAYBE 50 if we're lucky we still have to but Sophia diapers and everything I told him we need to just go back to tx where there is at least jobs not even live in the same town as his baby momma he doesn't wanna see there are jobs there full time jobs 40+ hours a week I would make really good checks when we lived there but he thinks I just wanna take Soph from his family and be with my family, they already said they would visit and we would visit but he's being stubborn he doesn't understand we CAN NOT do anything with ourselves here we can't provide for Soph we can't get jobs or a house anything.. UGH!! sorry for the long vent rant.
J·
Мама подростка
I get what your saying and i agree sounds like you guys so go where the money is you gotta be able to support yourself and child. And he doesnt want to mess around with child support especially if his first child s mother is difficult
J·
Мама подростка
not so i meant should*
🎀👛👠Heather&,Sophia💄👑👗·
Мама дочки-младенца
@pregolove2014 it's just that baby was a super accident it's just I even talked to his mom about it even she understands she doesn't feel like I'm trying to take Soph away she knows I'm trying what's best for us but I just don't know there is no way with a baby living off 50$ is even logical.. btw thanks for actually reading this I know it was long!
🎀👛👠Heather&,Sophia💄👑👗·
Мама дочки-младенца
@pregolove2014 I feel like I'm going to have to leave him because he doesn't wanna do what's best for our.child
J·
Мама подростка
No problem , did you guys consider a family member situation until you guys are in a better financial situation if you decide not to leave?
🎀👛👠Heather&,Sophia💄👑👗·
Мама дочки-младенца
@pregolove2014 we already live with his mom we've lived with her almost a year.. she wants us to move out like she doesn't wann support us anymore you know..
J·
Мама подростка
o ok yeah my sister went through the same thing with our mom so i understand . Its definitely a tough situation your in i hope you guys figure something out as a family that works best for everyone. 🙏for you i hope things change for the better somehow
missing41user·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
This is the very reason I want to leave California before my baby is born. I have not been able to find a stable job to save my life and I'm a single mom of soon to be 3. I hate living with my parents. It's torture. Sacramento has a lot of jobs so I'm thinking about giving that a shot before I leave the state entirely. I was born and raised here but, I've left 3 times and never had a problem finding a job in another state. He should try temp agencies and summer job fairs. It's tough out here plus the cost of living is ridiculous. I know exactly what you're going through.