uggghhh i hate undecisive people!!!! i am getting full custody of my baby and I will not allow her dad to see her. He is…
uggghhh i hate undecisive people!!!! i am getting full custody of my baby and I will not allow her dad to see her. He is immature and cannot make up his mind. he laughs in my face when I ask him serious questions and he keeps reminding me how he wanted me to have an abortion and today he told me he wants me to put her up for adoption! i dont care how much I struggle, its all for my baby.... his family claims they wanna be there yet when I send them updates on the baby or ask them to call me i hear nothing back. so this is MY BABY, and I will not share.... i dont care if people call me mean for not allowing him and his family to see her. they show no interest in her or me. If they completely turn around from here until she is born then I may consider them being involved but as of right now she is MY BABY!!!
ezmyyluvzu·
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@alye27, yeah :/
Alye·
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Seems like you're doing everything right and they're just ungrateful and disrespectful
ezmyyluvzu·
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@alye27, yeah, and ive been very easy and allowing it because his dad just passed away in april of cancer. i have been very forgiving to him and not pushy and I even gave his mom flowers after he passed away and i got her a gift for mothers day.
Alye·
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I get it. My ex is doing the same shit off and on and his mom and her bf are insane!!!!!!! People need to just take their head out of their ass cause it's not a hat
ezmyyluvzu·
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@alye27, yeah im doing my best to protect her, 2 weeks ago he told me i could have full custody and just yesterday we talked about a new custody plan where he was involved and now he is telling me shit again... -_-
ezmyyluvzu·
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@hayleymarie, oh wow. she hasnt even added me on fb, i message her on there and i have her house number, i dont have her cell number.
Alye·
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I'm in a very similar situation so I totally get it! I hope things get better! Protect your little one
Hayley Marie Libby·
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My in laws lost interest when they found out I was having a girl then she flipped out when I was in labor because I posted an update on fb for my family, closest friends, & Paisleys God mother and she assumed everyone was up at the hospital and she wasn't invited even though they were just tagged in the update to get the information and only my parents were there with us
ezmyyluvzu·
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@mamas_mia, okay thanks
mamas_mia·
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You won't have to if you're not married. Unless you're wanting support.
ezmyyluvzu·
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@mamas_mia, i was trying not to go to court, but now the way he is acting I see that I have to... :/
mamas_mia·
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If you two aren't married, you are to sole legal guardian until you go to court and paternity, custody, and child support are established.
ezmyyluvzu·
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@hayleymarie, yeah, im almost 7 months and Im the one going over there to show them ultrasounds, im messaging her updates and pictures of the baby and at first it seemed like she was somewhat interested but now she is just readings my messages and not replying.
Hayley Marie Libby·
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Girl I know the feeling in 3 months my MIL had l only seen my daughter 3 times and never asks about her so about a month ago I decided that my MIL will NOT be in my daughters life at all and she's almost 4 months now...I refuse to set my baby up for disappointment and I'm not going to let someone half ass their relationship with her you're either 💯% here for her or you're cut off ✌️!