ok so heres the story...i am going to be a single parent ever since i found out i tried reaching to the "donor" bout my pregnancy. Obvisouly he said no hes not helping out...ok cool no worries then am not gunna beg. Fastforward to today...am due next week and my dad asks what is the name of my child going to be. so i said nadia jayleen with both my last name. You know us hispanics have long names lol so he says to me that i should think about it. that i should put his last name. well my reason i dont want to is cuz he hasnt been there he didnt help me at all all he did was donate his sperm thats it. I believe i doing the right thing but my dad doesnt think that. i mean its not like am going to tlk bad about her father nor say negative things. i will tell her once she is grown enough to understand why things happened where he is at and then thatll be her choice to either contact him or not. Like i told my dad am not saying that he as in the donor is a bad person i understand having a child is something big. In my case i think no i know am doing the correct thing. What do you girls think? Am i doing the right thing or not?