I am trying to do what my mom said, to put trust in my mother in law. She lives 3.5 hours away and doesn't seem to ever want to stay at her Ohio house. Which would make her only 45 minutes away from me. She always wants the kids to go to down to her place, which we have seen the place and know the whole hill she lives on is nothing but drugs. so we really don't want her having them all the way there. Anyways, now she is really dragging her feet about never coming back to Ohio. First it was every other weekend, now I don't think she has been up here for three months. I am worried because she is the one that takes the kids when I go into the hospital. Wish she come to Ohio and clean the house and make room for the kids to stay. I used to live there, cleaned two bedrooms at the time and now they are hoarded. I don't know what to do, my parents are working full time jobs and can't afford to take a day or few days off work. My mother in law doesn't work so a perfect fit. I don't think I will have time to wait on her to get 3.5 hours back to Ohio and then her drive another 45 minutes to get to our place. She is just rubbing me wrong with this whole situation. I want her around the kids but come to our house as much as we come to yours. Sorry it might not make a ton of sense or parts of my story might be missing, but I can't rely on someone that isn't stable now to be here when the baby comes.