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anyone else deal with this?:
my child's father has known I'm pregnant since I was 7 weeks.
no lie, at about 9 weeks he just dropped outta the picture basically. I mean I know where he is and I hear from him every once in a blue moon, either when he's drunk or just really bored. but it's never about baby. he NEVER asks how this pregnancy is going. when I do hear from him, it's all about him. idk what to do. I've already stopped texting him, bc it just frustrates the F*** out of me that he never texts bk. but the sonogram to find out what we're having is in 2 weeks. should I remind him? ask him to be there? or just write him off as a POS already and try to get over the fact I'm 99.9% sure I'm gonna be a single mom 😢
advice... opinions... help
my child's father has known I'm pregnant since I was 7 weeks.
no lie, at about 9 weeks he just dropped outta the picture basically. I mean I know where he is and I hear from him every once in a blue moon, either when he's drunk or just really bored. but it's never about baby. he NEVER asks how this pregnancy is going. when I do hear from him, it's all about him. idk what to do. I've already stopped texting him, bc it just frustrates the F*** out of me that he never texts bk. but the sonogram to find out what we're having is in 2 weeks. should I remind him? ask him to be there? or just write him off as a POS already and try to get over the fact I'm 99.9% sure I'm gonna be a single mom 😢
advice... opinions... help
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@uhoh2015, yes you only can do so much... Just try to stay happy and excited for your baby :)
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@uhoh2015, yes you only can do so much... Just try to stay happy and excited for your baby :)
thank you ladies and @jenkobe8348 ... I think that's what I'm gonna do. he'll realize it one day, that all I've done is tried. and there's only so much one person can do.
You can't make no one be a daddy it would only frustrate you..I learned that the hard way with my BD!!! Just focus on you and your baby it's all his lost... If he calls and it's not about the baby then keep it short with him....
I just don't know if I want to. the first two sonograms he never attempted to be there. none of the appointments. why should I give him the blessing of seeing? I know that's bad of me. but then again, I think it's fair. and mostly bc I know he won't go. I just don't want the disappointment anymore. I've tried everything. every which way up until now to keep him involved. and he could care less. 💔
Yup mine knew when I found out was 5 weeks at the time not long after he pretty much droped outa the picture aswell an I pretty much droped him it was all about him aswell an he didn't really care nor want us so his lose..
I would remind him one more time and he shows he shows but after that I wouldnt tell him anything else almost use this sonogram as a test to c if he wants to b involved or is going to b no offense a deadbeat dad