it's stupid though I have my own house and life so why is there a reason I shouldn't have my child. I just don't understand it.

I'm 17, my fiancé and I have our own house, have been on my own since I was 15.(now that was a little way too young but I'm stubborn ANYWAYS) I know a lot of people that are older that can't handle children. And a lot of teens/young moms who can do better! It depends on the mom not the age. I hate when people judge just because we're young. Smh

Family members believe that they still have your entire life planed out for you and that a baby will destroy all of their plans for you. That's what happened with my first daughter. I got pregnant with her when I was 17 but when she was born I was 18 and legal to adopt a kid if I wanted to. But my father ignored me and so did his entire side of the family until after I had my baby bc they hated that I was pregnant. And half of my mothers side still doesn't like the fact that I have a child and I'm about to have another child and that I'm 22yrs old. It's just the way family's are.

People are crazy and all have opinions