That's What I Wish I Could Do Make Decisions But I Can't It Usually Goes As Far As Telling My Bf What Is Best & Then He Tells Her & I Consider My Stepson I Always Have I Been With My Boyfriend Since Before He Was Born . We've Been Together 2 Years & He's About 2 Turn 2 In August It's Just Time For Me 2 Focus on Having My Own Child Right Now I LOVE MY STEPSON & I've Put So Much Time Into Being A Great Step mom But It Only Goes So Far IT'S TIME 2 FOCUS ON MYSELF & HAVING MY OWN BUNDLE OF JOY & BECOMING A MOM @aphrodite2014

@mommyof10627, I personally have step kids also with a dead beat mama and there is a possibly always with dead beat mama's that yall could end up with his child fulltime also if you don't already. you should definitely considering your step kid when making plans with your man, because that child will always be there... I guess my situation is a little different my fiance and I make his side of decisions for the kids and we co-parent. good luck.

It's Not That He Thinks Us Having A Baby Is 2 Much Because He Has 1 Already Don't Get Me Wrong I Love My Stepson & He's With Me A lot But He's Not My Child He Has A Mom & I Can't Make Decisions About His Life Like His Mom Can But Besides That Basically What I Mean Is Just Because My Boyfriend Has 1 Child Already Won't Stop Me From Having My Own & I'm Not The Pushing Type It's Just Him Having A Child Already Has Absolutely NOTHING 2 Do With Me That's From His Previous Relationship My Main Focus Is Having My Own Family Not Half Raising Someone Else's Child Because She Can't Take Care of Him But Wants 2 Control Everything Else As Well If That's The Case He Should Go Back Home With Her She Quit Her Job & Be Homeless So Moral of The Story MY MAIN FOCUS IS MY LIFE MY OWN FAMILY@aphrodite2014

I personally have 2 possibility 3 step kids starting at 8 months to 4 years and I personally want 2 of my own my boyfriend is on board but I for sure teat and care for my "step" children the way I would for my own or the best I know I would care for my own because I'm not a mom yet. and it took his ex about 5 years while they where together to conceive with him. and she has a total of 8.. I however am not pushing us having one but we are definitely trying and letting it happen. we know it will. keep hope up but don't push too much on him he has already said yes enjoy the one while you can

Yes It Is & I Tell Him It's Not The Same Because I Didn't Carry Him & The Things I Want 2 Do I Can't Because He's Not My Son @christalmarilyn

yes, nothing like loving your own child 💖