not pregnancy related but has your boyfriend ever (joked around well him thinking it was a joke) saying when he askes you to marry him and at his Bachelor Party he's going to fuck another girl? well my boyfriend did and when he does ask me too marry him I'm considering to tell him fuck no since he wants too say that shit:// that hurt my feelings him saying that to me..he might of thought it was funny but it wasn't at all now I'm sitting here balling my eyes out 3
As a joke, yes my now husband brought it up. I didn't care because I knew he wouldn't have the courage. We didn't have a bachelor party or anything like that though because that's not what was important to us. Even still after being married for 9 months he jokes around about me being free to sleep with other men. That irks me a bit.
I'm sorry your feelings are hurt. I hope you can work it out.
Marriage is more important than a party so communicate your feelings and worries with him. If he wants the same things as you he'll at least be willing to compromise.
I don't even believe in bachelor parties,my dad and mom never had one neither did my sister just for that reason because those parties are just wrong and disrespectful in my eyes
right like I love him a lot and were having a beautiful daughter who's gonna be here in just a couple months:) but if hes gonna say something like that then I don't think I can trust him and even if we did get married I don't want a party like he does all I want is a long lasting marriage!!!:)
And that may be what a bachelor party used to be or is for some people but I personally think marriages should start off with trust and respect - not a fear of STD's and pregnancy. You know? My husband and I talked about what we were both comfortable with the other person doing during the bachelor/ette parties and stuck to it.
thank you it was not funny..that really did hurt me,and when I looked at him and told him to go get fuck he said a Bachelor Party means your single for that night you can do whatever you want.. like okay you can have fun but you shouldn't tell your girlfriend you would have sex with another girl...that just hurt Me a lot
my boyfriend doesn't even want a bachelor party. I don't know what I would do if he told me he would have sex with someone else.... maybe castrate him?