I'm really really not trying to sound rude, but I don't understand how teenaged girls are trying to get pregnant. I had my son at 20 and I still didn't feel ready. I look back now 5 years later and realized I was still pretty young. I'm at an age where I'm seeing the difference from then to now. I'm more mature, financially and emotionally ready, of course my son changed me for the better and I wouldn't have it any other way. But sometimes waiting isn't a bad thing.
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@jenii, I can agree 😄😄 We have blessings most definitely 💕💞 it was nice talking to you though.. 😉😘
well our kids are blessings! not accidents 😉 girl we knew what we were doing if you know what I mean hahaha @queenquee
Right. ! you should always be financially stable before planning a pregnancy.. Just for the sake of the baby. & No I can't get offended cause you being truthful.. I just had to make my point that some are accidents and when u finally, explained it to me more then I agree 100%.. 😃😊
I think you should always have some stability in your life before bringing another human into it. I'm not bashing teen mom's my mom was a teen mom I have a lot of family who have kids and are teens but it just makes me sad how some of them are no where near ready and struggle doing it. I'm glad you weren't offended it wasn't meant to offend anyone :) @queenquee
@jenii, well yes I agree 100% with you now. Planning pregnancy & not having nothing is not right at all. Bringing a child in this world when u can't really take care of yourself. (My sister for example, she want to get pregnant so bad but yet she don't have NO where to stay and her bf is in and out of jail..)and thanks love I applaud u to. 😄😘 and I respect this post cause I agree .. Females like that need to get it together. Cause a baby isn't easy. They are very hard to take care of , always in need for something. so if they can wait I would recommend them to wait also. ( I didn't know what you meant at first guess I read it wrong) 😊
Believe me I know about things happening unexpectedly my son was not planned but I've seen some young girls on here not even 18 yet PLANNING their pregnancy and most of them live with their parents. in your situation I applaud you for being so young and getting things done ☺ @queenquee
@jenii, its a difference when u try to get pregnant and get pregnant by mistake . (exactly what happened to me, to have my first so young) but I still graduated and he is well taken care of right along with my others.. I can agree where u coming from to a certain extent. But sometimes its not the females fault. (Yea she chose to have sex unprotected, But things happen ) God will never put nothing on you that you can't handle is how I look at it. Its a reason for everything... But i do agree with you.
I understand things happen, but to be so young and plan a pregnancy when you still live at home with your parents have no income seems rough I agree anyone can do it and my life is way different now than it was then @queenquee
Sometimes females get pregnant cause of an accident. I had my first son at 14 & I see no difference from having him then and being pregnant now. This will be my 3rd pregnancy and I feel like by the grace of God anybody can do it..
I just something about this! I really don't understand.