I sure hope so. Thanks @wyattsmommy91

as long as u r 100% ready and want to it should be successful

@wyattsmommy91,

I plan on it going no further than one anyways @why attsmommy91

yes we did

So ya'll stopped doing 3 ways all together #? @wyattsmommy91

That's good to know (: @rcdonjuan

I've had multiple 3 wats with my hubby. to be honest I hated the one we had with another girl it was fun but then she started trying to hook.up with my hubby behind my back and then wanted to play dumb when I called her out on the shit. We also had too many to count with his best friend which was a dude they were fun but then when we'd all hang out.play Xbox and smoke weed they expected it and then my hubby got jealous at one point even though he said he wasn't so I put a end to them. they made our relationship stronger to a certain extent but then it also strained it cause he wanted to hook.up with other girls.in a 3 way setting and he would.pester me about it even after I said no.

yes... cause I realized im beautiful I my fiances eyes no matter what...and every female has an insecurity about themselves...and every female is beautiful in their own way too :-)!!

@santistevanmommie, that's what I'm worried about. But I feel like if I can get my insecurities in check, then I'll be fine

It's hard. I honestly don't think I would ever be able to have a threesome no matter how long we have been together. I feel like I would be the same way, like after it happens always asking are we okay, did you catch feelings and stuff like that to where he would get annoyed with me being so worried that he would leave.

@santistevanmommie, I think my biggest issue is where I have a tendency to dwell in the past 😓 like I would believe a relationship was going well. Then, next thing you know, it's over. That, I believe, is the main issue

I'm not scared of losing my fiancé if we were to have a threesome to me it's that he's mine. I couldn't imagine him sticking it in any other girl but me. I'm a super territorial person so that has a lot to do with it but even just thinking about him with another woman makes my heart hurt regardless of him possibly catching feelings for her. Luckily he says he doesn't want a threesome, I know he's thought of it but he's against having one.

@rcdonjuan,

Very true (: did the threesomes help your insecurities any?

yes ma'am...I was nervous to at first cause I used to have bad insecurities but iv grown to realize that as long as ya have a healthy honest relationship that ya can do anything together...iv worked on my insecurities and yea I still have them but their alot better and I dont worry as much anymore :-)

😊👊🏻 @tracynangel

And that's how it should be! 👊🏼

He's been patient with me so far, haha @tracynangel

Well if he truly loves you, then he will be patient and understand!

@tracynangel I have told him that. He had given me a timeframe, but I think he's moved on from that

@rcdonjuan that's what I want to happen. To let him know these women are no threat to met. That I know he loves me, and wouldn't leave me for anything or anyone. But, of course, my insecurities aren't letting that happen yet. I guess I just have to realize they aren't and that he wants me/finds me beautiful and not them

You can always tell him it'll happen one of these days but that you're not ready just yet! A major part of marriage is communication!

@tracynangel, I've said something to that affect. Like, I want to be the only woman for you, and he says I am. In his words, "I signed a contract. You ain't getting rid of me." Which made me feel better. I guess it's just an experiment he's always wanted to try. @sev1226 I never thought about that. I didn't know you could pay for stuff like that. We've already established that'll be someone we don't know with no way of communicating afterwards, and if the 3rd party did find us on Facebook or something, we would block her. He even told me to pick her. I think the main issue is actually my insecurities. He has all the confidence and reassurance in the world. So I guess I'm just working on myself.

yea that was my advice to my fiance when we talk about doing it again...no contact after wards and no friends...it's fun and it made us closer cause now he knows im not against it and he likes that im open minded and knows that other females r not a threat to me :-) its

@peppermintmama, that's what I told him. I told him to let me get comfortable with it before anything happens. Oddly enough, I'm starting to get more comfortable with it. I also said something about me being the only one having contact with the other girl, but he wants to be in on the action too. So, it might be hard to convince him otherwise, but I'm going to try. @rcdonjuan well, my plan is to make it a 1 time thing. So we don't have to deal with that. Even though it still potential happen. We've already established that there will be no numbers, Facebook, ect. exchanged. As well as aliases used. I don't think I could do it with a friend. I feel like it'd be too awkward. @ckatx3 I can't picture him with another girl either, all I see when I picture it is 2 of me, haha. I think it's good to spice up the relationship every now and then, and I think this would definitely do that. @armywife_martinez my husband's the same way, but he does get turned on by girl on girl action. So I think that's why it's a big deal for him. He said it'd be 2 fantasies in one

*can of worms to open lol! Sorry!

If you do it, pay for it! Don't get someone who either of you know or has a chance to communicate with. I have only known a few couples who went down that road and no joke two out of 3 husbands left for the other woman! It ended up becoming a recurring thing and before the women knew it their husbands were meeting with the 3rd person without them.. Letting someone else into your marriage is a huge can of wore a to open so I would get a professional escort... My husband and I use to talk about it but after seeing it ruin marriages we don't anymore

I think if you feel ready, you need to do it for you also, not just to please your husband or you'll end up regretting it. from the sounds of it, you don't sound ready, but then you feel excited to make him happy, but YOU have to be ok with it! I've asked my husband if he would ever want a threesome and he told me never because I'm the only woman he'd ever want to be with, but I have always wondered if he has ever thought about it! You're brave if you do it!

My husband only suggests it when it's with a celebrity lol. Other than that he wouldn't dare ask me, he's very territorial with me, he'd hate to see me with anyone else just like I would hate to see him with somebody else..

If you're willing to go through with it just make sure you're the one that's having full contact with the female. I give you props girl, my hubby has been asking me one for years but I just can't picture him with another female even if I'm there, you just never know what can happen and I'm not risking it.

I have had one...it happened more than once...me and this girl were friends from work and I invited her to have one with us...well let's just say she got feelings for my fiance and was trying to go behind my back to have a relationship with him..well it lasted up until that and he told her it wouldnt be anything more than it was that he loved me and he would never leave me for anybody..so needless to say she got hurt and quit coming around ofcourse...but the threesome was fun..my advice is do it with somebody thats not looking for anything else and u dont have to see the girl very much afterwards :-)

Do not do it if you are not 100% ok with it, your experience will be based solely on your mindset. My advice is wait until you feel ready, i would also say YOU have all contact with the woman that way you are comfortable, i would also say possibly to pick a married couple not a single woman that way you do not ever have to worry.