having a really hard night .. all i want to do is cry .. i feel like im failing at being a mom and girl friend .. i stay at home with baby and i cant keep the house clean and half the time i dont make dinner for my boy friend or myself .. i dont sleep much im so stressed that my hair has started to fall out and i just dont have energy to do anything and all i do when baby crys is cry myself and try to help her . just having a lonely night i hate that i feel like im a single parent because my bf works so muchs hes hardly home and when he is he needs to sleep... sorry for the ling post but i had to get it out
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dont believe the guilt trip ur brain is giving u. ur a great mommy or ud not be be worrying bout it. give ur man lotz of love..be patient with him..cua they rarely get it....looks for support in other women. im cheering for u. just focus on one small step at a time. do timers...five mins of clean up every hour. and leave it at that. prep food before hubby leaves for work...so u got dinner under control by the time he gets back. be creative with ur time.
im bipolar.when i had my little girl at nineteen i felt like u....minus the crying. i fought with hubby for attention n time but we were in same situation. what u can try is the antidepreasants but most important is for u to let go of the ideal situation expectations. so bbs are hard to care for...some moms are not as strong or focused enough to keep the house. nothing bad with that. it just means u gotta try thinga out to find what is the best that U can do.
Sure, there's a lot of changes and things on our plates , it can be overwhelming... You aren't alone ☺️
yeah im going to go see my doctor next week about it because i dont want it to get any worse. thank you @septson
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