when push comes to shove whose gets the final say in naming the baby? my mother in law is trying to guilt us into naming our baby after her if it's a girl, saying we promised her over 5 years ago we would. I don't want my baby named after her! I don't like her name at all!!!! I want my baby to have a name me and my fiance choose & love!
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@babybump3, ty! felt so good to vent!
Lol girl I know, just ignore her...believe me, she will get the hint eventually @bsummers
@babybump3, sorry forgot to tag u in above comment!
ty. I'm trying to relax it's just hard. I seriously can't wait to get out of her place. omfg. I know I will feel alot more at ease when I'm in my own place again! & boo for monster in laws 👿
@bsummers, and if she convinces him then you let him know, that's not what you want...at the end of the day, you are the one that fills out the paper work...so in all reality, YOU get the last say over the baby name...try not to stress yourself momma, I think most of us have a monster in law lol
@babybump3, she has a certain way of manipulating him it's disgusting EVERYONE including his siblings see it but he doesn't! we are currently stuck living with her (temporarily... Thank God) so I haven't brought it up and when she brings it up I say I'm not ready to talk about names and she says stuff like I promised her 5 years ago... I barely even knew her then I've only been with fiance for 6 years but anyway I'm just afraid she is gonna somehow convince him he wants the baby to have her name. Ugh. 😢😥 @shaysaleen
@bsummers, im sorry . id just tell her to back off or have to talked to hubby and told him she is a pain
@bsummers, well then she just have to deal with it...u and hubby take yall time.and name the baby what ever yall want...if mom in law doesn't.like it then oh well...she will get over it
part of the problem is I don't even Really like my mother in law if I haven't named a child after my own mother I definitely don't want one named after her at all! she's making my pregnancy miserable & it barely started! @babybump3 @shaysaleen @hayleymarie
@hayleymarie, pick what YOU two want . sadly mother in law will just have to deal with it . and like @babybump3 ssid maybe include her or maybe use her middle name for the baby if it better than her 1st :)
Like Dana said my hospital had me fill out the birth certificate paperwork not her dad...right after I had my daughter via c section I started crying saying plz make sure he spells Paisley correctly cause I knew he would spell it wrong and they were like no honey you'll fill that paperwork our later so in the end the name is your choice cause what you write on that paper is going to be their name
@bsummers, but her question was about the mother in law...NOT the father, she and.her husband want to name the baby...but.his mom is trying.to get them to name.her after her...that's why I said its basically up to her and her hubby...and if they want to include the mother in law then think about giving the baby her.name as a middle name....
I believe the hospital asks the mother to fill out the birth certificate NOT the father.
personally I say name the baby what you and.hubby want....what ever name you choose, the baby had to live with for the rest of her life....so choose what you and hubby think is best...and maybe if you want to incorporate your mother in law, make her name the middle name
So I wanted to name my daughter Serenity & then my brother & parents called me after they had a whole house meeting saying the name “wouldn’t get her a job”.. now I’m back to square one 🙄
Is It Weird That I Don't Want Other Expecting Moms To Know My Baby's Name??
I Would Be Furious!!!
Just Find Your Own Name For Your Baby, Don't Be A Name Stealer Lmaoooo
I'm Deadass Tho...
if I say I do not want my baby daddy's mom up to visit the baby when the baby is born can I say I don't want her there?
will my baby daddy have a say if she can see him?
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
:)