@mommyanddaddytobe,maybe you should do that too leave his butt because some men never miss a good thing until it's gone

@mssjudyk, yassssssss 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 amen !!

yeah you're seriously so lucky he changed I try talking n nothing ever gets through to him.. and it's just so hard to leave him I want him around and I just love him so much. seriously sucks.. @lovemynugget12

@phasion, He Showed me.... not told me.. He got a job as a fire inspector. A career, he showed me his bank account how much he had saved. He got his priorities in check. He got a House, a four bedroom house. Just for us :) He's been very respectful and emotionally supportive. I guess me leaving him really scared him or something idk but it worked. He expressed his feelings amd fears, something never done before...

@mssjudyk, wow he must've said some powerful words to make you come back ☺️

I really do appreciate mines, he really did step up, he was NOTHING like this before... I was the only one working and providing... he never paid bills or even helped me clean. I got so sick of it I left him. I went to LA to stay with family, was seriously contemplating being a single mom. Then we talked, he went to pick me up and now we even have a house, and Im not working! he just completely blew my mind. I try to cater to his every need. I feel he deserves it. i try not to complain so much either, I see how tired he gets home from work.. I'm truly greatful he changed. it took him a while but he did :)

@phasion yeah it's just the truth !

boys never change !

@mommyanddaddytobe I'm working right now I'm only ten weeks and I plan to work as long as I can my bf hasn't got a job YET I'm giving him another month before I give up on him cause I'll leave him I don't need a bum dad around my child. think of your baby and what's best for y'all. really what is he doing for y'all ? I moved back in with my mom and you NEED to be with your baby after he is born you need to spend a few months with him I'm sure your mom would understand!!

@lovemynugget12, totally agree

yeah I'm not because I know what will happen.. and I'm going to go straight from birth to working again cause of him. just isn't fair :( @phasion

thank you so much. that's exactly what goes through my mind everyday. Like we literally found out I was pregnant when I was like 2 weeks along.. I ended up getting a job when I was 4 months pregnant.. and he just won't get serious about a job. I want to provide for my baby and give him everything he needs I don't want my in-laws to do it or my parents. I want us to. idk what will get through to him, I keep thinking he will change but the father along I'm getting, nothings changed so idk what will change him 😞💔@lovemynugget12

@mommyanddaddytobe, yes don't quit yet until you all are financially straight for bills and the little one

wtf this upsets me because if he was a real man he would have started working his little ass off to provide for his family since the moment y'all found out baby was on the way and you should be spoiled and taken good care of being 8 months pregnant at home resting not working . !!! if reality hasn't hit him yet when will it ? he needs to grow up and man up . sorry but you should be treated better

well because of classes he can only work Tuesday Saturday n Sunday until next week. and he has to attend 3 maditory meetings each week so he got the OK cause of that. idk how he did it but he managed. Like what can I possibly do?! I don't want to be without him, I do love him so much. :( idk I keep thinking if I quit he'll work, but then I get scared because he'll spend all his money on dumb ass shit. I'm just so confused on everything really.. @phasion

@mommyanddaddytobe, if I was his PO I wouldn't sign off on that why would the PO sign off on that ?!! You should call his PO and tell em about you all situation

yeah... literally just called his probation officer to get a note saying he could only work four hours.. idk what to do nor think anymore like for real
he isn't getting serious about providing or anything at this point. I'm losing all my hope 😢@phasion

Is he serious ?! 😳