met this 14 year old mommy to be and I asked her y she wanted a baby so early and she said because her friend did it and having a baby would be cool..... I don't knock any young person for starting early I got pregnant at 16 it was my decision but I will NOT I repeat will NOT have a baby because its cool and because my friend got pregnant.... but I did refer her to this app and congratulate her on motherhood and I hope all was well with her pregnancy
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it really is if you don't have the help you need or support glad I had my mom grandma and aunt so that I could finish school some teens let haveing a bad y stop the from moving forward I was much gr8ful god gave me strength and opportunity.... especially being where I am
@Kimberlyyyy, your mom sound like mine I was 16 n pregnant she scheduled me abortion I went twice but when I got pregnant at 18 yrs old 3 months after the abortion I said God is telling me something this may be my last and for 13 years I couldn't get pregnant for the life of me! I have an almost 13 year old n now a newborn I really feel God was teaching me a lesson by not allowing me to get pregnant for such a long time . I am glad I didn't have the babies before cuz I wasn't ready but I still think what if... When my daughter turns 13 in gonna tell her just how fast I was n where she could end up I am honest n open with her bout sex now because I don't want to be a 36 year old granny . I was fortunate to have an older mom with only two kids n established but it's hard being a teen mom
yea.... there was no advise I could give her she sounded like she had everything down pack but babysitting ain't like waking up every hour of the night... no rest and I tried to remind her like your 14 how will you provide for your child with out being able to get a job like your just a baby your damn self but yea to each is own frfr
Yes And Not Every Teen Mom Has That Support I Hope The Baby Is Okay n I Hope She Gets Herself Togethrr...
My mum would have pushed me down some stairs if I got pregnant that early. Even at 20 I had to defend myself and basically tell her to F off when she told me she scheduled an abortion for me. Everyone has to live the life they chose for themselves but I could not, I repeat, I PERSONALLY COULD NOT HAVE been a mom at 16. I watched my 15 year old friend have a kid freshman year- her dreams of going to a good college (that she was basically accepted into as a freshman in high school) was over, after the kid was born it was taken away from her for awhile... She was SO F'ing smart, could have had scholarships.... To each their own really & truly, but there are better reasons to bring a child into the world as "I thought it would be cool" or "now the guy 'has' stay with me" or "I'll have someone who loves me unconditionally forever and ever". Again, it's everyone's own decision but I couldn't do it. Hopefully she will have the support she needs, as well as every young mom, 💩 every mom needs that wether they're 15, 25, 35 and every other age.
Wtf... I Got Pregnant when I Was 13 I Found Out when I was 4/5months... I don't like abortion at all... n I did not like the idea of adoption. .. I don't wanna see my kid getting raised by someone else... he's my responsibility. .. so I had himm.... I Ddn't wanna get pregnant young but oh well it happend... but getting pregnant cuz ur friend is pregnant n it's "cool" she doesn't what she's getting into... she still has a mind of a child... I did what I had to do idk Abt her... hopefully she can take care of that baby...
wow another added responsibility for the parents. I know my 15 yo can't work my than 14 hours a week. to each it's own, but I wish mine would..