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I am on the saaaame boat as you girl!! immature ass boy's not men!

you can always find out who she is and tell her. a few years ago i told theese two past exs new girlfriends that they were gonna be cheated on as well because even one guy i dated his mom warned me he was a cheater and a year later after telling each girl we became best friends they were rude at first until it happened to them. but it doesnt hurt to warn someone else its like doing something good in my opinion. sorry to hear you were cheated on. but it will be okay you will find someone better and your child is better off.

same here somewhat girly i know how you feel. But trust me your too good for him and your best of doing your own thing and focusing on your blessing. Its going to be hard at first but soon you will be so happy you wont even be effected by this guy and i promise you he will regret doing you wrong.

@jenni, I can't help but be so happy though. Like I've been single for 8 months and going strong. The only concern I have at this moment in my life is my son. I know being a single mother is not going to be a cake walk, but I've got my family back of me up 100% which is a huge help and my best friend by my side who has already proved to be the best I've had since I was like 10. Honestly, I know it's low of me to say I hope my ex gets this new girl pregnant but I can't help but wish it on him. He has no desire to truly step up, raise his son in a healthy household, nor has he ever made an effort to see how I was doing while carrying his child. Instead he played the coward and told me to my face that his music career is more important than anything I could ever offer. His loss not mine. Im still pursuing my bachelors degree. One day I'll be teaching English in a college somewhere, having had published numerous works and he's going to be strung out on his ass somewhere begging for money for booze and drugs. His loss!

@allymae, I've got my ex blocked on every social networking outlet. I even had to change my phone number to ensure that he wouldn't contact me because he was getting verbally and emotionally abusive toward me and kept telling me I wasn't ready to be a mom nor was I qualified. So there's no way I could find out who she is. @alyssaloveslucy226 thanks so much! I'm so happy I've kicked him out of my life. To be honest. I feel free of his condescending attitude and his ability to trick me into doing things. Love isn't controlling like that, no way!

My baby's father is just like that, he has a pregnant girlfriend now that we aren't together lol

i am literally dealing with something similar and its awful and i dont get any credit for taking care of my daughter. I promise you your baby will be worth it and i know its a special moment that you would want him there for but he already proved to you that he cant handle it. just wait he will want to one day but when that day comes its up to you and honestly do what you think is best.

Oh I've already accepted the facts. I don't want him to be a part of my son's life at all. My son deserves someone who actually genuinely cares for him, who wants to see him succeed, and grow in his faith with God. Unfortunately that person isn't my ex. At least I've got my family to support me. My dad is so beyond ecstatic to FINALLY have a little boy running around the house (I'm the oldest of three girls, no boys in my family until Jasper is born). :) for the time being Jasper will be taught the essentials of being a man (and a God loving man at that) from watching my dad, and I couldn't be happier because everything my dad does is to honor God and to support our family. :)

I definitely wouldn't wish pregnancy on the other chick... When you have your son you can go after him for child support. If he gets another girl pregnant he'll have less money to send your way. I was a single mom from the day I found out I was pregnant. The "father" wanted me to get an abortion and I said no. I knew he wouldn't be involved. He and I were never together so it was stupid, but anyway after he screwed me over I took him to court and now we get child support. He doesn't try to see my son, and I have a loving and supportive fiancé who loves my son has his own, has been with us since my son was 5 months old and now we have a little on one the way. Fuck deadbeats, go after him when your son is born and then live your life. Maybe you'll find a guy deserving of your time and love and who can step up and be a father to your son.

If I go after him for child support my ex will demand that he get visitation rights and I do not want my son in that dysfunctional apartment that my ex is living in nor do I want my son around my ex because he's an addict (cocaine, weed, alcohol). My son doesn't deserve a deadbeat father to be quite honest and blunt.