tbh... going through this pregnancy alone has opened my eyes to allot. I'm absolutely happy and fine…

I completely agree. I've been alone since I've found out I was pregnant, now my baby's father has another baby on the way. She's about 4 months pregnant, I'm 7 months pregnant. And he still refers to my daughter as an it and man it pisses me off. The other day he actually seemed like he was trying to fix things with me, then when his girlfriend found out he went back to starting to talk shit to me. So I just blocked his number girl I do not need that extra stress lol. Strong single mamas unite!

no stress girl. men like that aint worth your tears and ain't worth stressing over. our little ones are a blessing, if my baby's father ever comes around no I'm not going to keep him from seeing his son but Lol that's all he gonna be coming see. and y'all ladies know exactly what I mean. @brightsunsett

I do. And your so strong as am I I won't lie this has been hard as hell but I wouldn't have changed any of it. @peytonisaiah622

it has been hard as well for me lol I've had days where I wish I could change the blood and DNA of my son but God's put me on this path for a reason. regardless, with our without his father,..... WE WILL survive and keep it moving. <3 @brightsunsett

Yes mam we will 💜 @peytonisaiah622

I disagree every Woman needs a Man and every Man needs a Woman what is not needed is weak little boys and girls who don't know how to take responsibility for their actions. Every woman needs to hold out until they come across a real man that's going to be there to build and add value to her life and the life of her child(ren) until then some of us women will have to go it alone and be the best woman n mother we can be. I went thru my pregnancy pretty much alone n what's worse I was supposed to be in a relationship I compromised my values and allowed someone to give me less than what I expected from a relationship and reality is just setting in now that my bBy is here. I've done it alone before I know I can do it again I'm gonna allow him the opportunity to be a good father even though he sucked as a boyfriend but I'm not begging for nothing. We are built strong we carry humans in us that takes strength we will Mk it thru

much respect on your opinion @ginag918

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I agree with all u said @ginag918. I'm going thru my pregnancy alone by choice. My actions and not being more careful/selective abt who I chose put me in the position of being a single mother. I'll never put my child's father down or talk negatively abt him, but I'll just say that we are on two different paths in life. I plan to do better and be better for my daughter so that she can know what a good example of being not only a woman, but a man is. Like you said man needs a woman and a woman needs a man, but its all about needing the right man/woman. Children aren't meant to be raised by one parent, they need both male and female energy, but in situations where a child has to be raised by only one parent God gives us the strength.

@ginag918,

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everybody is allowed an opinion. everybody lives different lives. not everybody is like everybody else. therefore your opinions are welcome but I still feel the way I feel. and I disagree a woman doesn't NEED a man. a lot of women can say the same. NO woman NEEDS a man. and that's my opinion @ginag918 @helpedbytmh

I was respectfully disagreeing with you I gave my opinion not negating how you feel. I wasn't argumentative in my reply either opinions vary some will agree with you some will agree with me like @helpedbytmh if you took offense to our opinions I'm sorry that's not something I can help you had already addressed me and said u respect my opinion so I really don't know why you tagged me because it seems you are bothered that we don't agree. Good day to you though 😊

no if you didn't read the beginning of my comment that was towards y'all. the rest of my comment was in my post from the beginning. that's how I feel and I was making that clear.

@ginag918,

It was clear when you posted it hun no one was trying to change your mom just giving a different opinion on it

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@peytonisaiah622, oh no I'm not trying to dissuade your opinion one way or another. I was just agreeing with what @ginag918 said and giving my own personal experience that's all. Sry if you felt that way but that wasn't my intention at all. Good lucj , you're going to be a great mom regardless of the situation. God bless

Very true. I went through the same thing with my now 19 month old son. Pregnancy I was alone and the first 13 months of his life I was alone. Now I reconnected with a man I knew when I was younger we're madly in love he loves my son as his own and he wouldn't have it any other way. We're now expecting a precious princess due in early September and we couldn't be more happy. Everything happens for a reason. I also feel when I got pregnant with my 19 month old that the life I was living would of sent me downward. He saved me. It's not the man that makes the baby a father it's the man that helps raise the baby a true father. I wish you nothing but the best and stay positive.