I hate that everyone I talk to (in person) judges me and tells me how dumb I am for wanting a pain med free birth. the only person who supports me is my bf and my mom. I know its going to be hard. I am not totally against pain meds. but I would like to not have them, but if I hurt I will get meds. It just makes me feel bad that no one wants to suport me....
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I had my first 3 kids with out any drugs and I'm planning to have this one also with no drugs by the grace of God of coarse. Women through out generations went through what we are going through and survived. I say do it if you can!
I have friends who were able to give birth with their first babies with no drugs. It's totally possible. Me on the other hand, I'm a freaking wimp, I needed those drugs. I got an extra dose of something && I still had a rough time. To each their own though!!
I went in with an open mind but I needed the drugs. I was induced and they say it's more intense when you're induced.
@lilithnight, Crazy if I could have done it with my first I would have. I been telling my fiance' that I don't want any pain meds if I don't have to have a c section. Some feel like they know everything but if you time everything right with how far you are dilated I know they won't give you an epidural. I can't get induce so I have to make sure I dilate on my own if I want to give birth vaginal.
@babydavis915, exactly! why do they have to put me down for wanting to do it that way. they all think I am just a naive ftm because they have all had kids already...
I'm the same way if I can have this child vaginal I don't want any pain meds
I guess sharing my personal info on here means having it used against me in a personal disagreement yes I was raped and no you have no right to use my daughter against me as a personal jab
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Mom's that went natural no meds , was it painful? Or painful PAINFUL ? I got an epidural last time but I wanna go no meds...
I am so stressed right now!!!
My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me.
I feel like I should not see any at this point.
I had both my babies with no pain meds. vaginally and natural. and I plan having this baby the same. Nothing is wrong with it.