Ok this question goes to the mommies who already had babies !
Ok I know 6 weeks is the estimated time you should wait until you get back to sex just curious to how long did you ladies wait 6 weeks exact or longer or shorter ?
I waited 2 weeks and had no tears. it was uncomfortable at first but after a minute it was good
@queeneden, did you deliver naturally any complications or tears
@someonesmommie, yes I had two stiches it was very minor tear. we had no problems he took it very slow and he listened to me
@lajo, ok and yea see I wanna make sure I decide on a birth control cause I definitely don't wanna go to my 6 week check up and hear your pregnant @caydensmommy & ok thanks
I made it 2 weeks after my twins. No complaints.
I don't know how many stitches I had, they never told me. Whenever you do have sex make sure to use lots of lube
@rosebud, ok im 9 days PP today I'll probably be giving it at least another week or two to be on the safe side and @caydensmommy idk what type of year I had but they wasn't going to even give me stitches she was just going to apply pressure but she said she wanted to be on the safe side so I know she gave me 3 stitches
I think I waited until 6 weeks especially because I hadn't had my birth control yet! But I also took it slow because I too tore naturally during birth. And it healed on the outside but definitely not on the inside. It took a good while for it to feel normal again... For me atleast.
I had stitches and they were dissolved by 9 days pp (I went to hospital for back pain and they checked) I only waited till I was 10 days pp:$
@caydensmommy, did you have any stitches or anything ?
@queenquee, @soontobemommy ok thanks ladies it's still early on for me right now so I'll just be taking it week by week and see how things go
As long as you feel like it's okay and it doesn't hurt anymore then it should be fine, my stitches had already came out also.
a waited a little longer because I had an yeast infection and it had to get cured first. besides the yeast infection I would have been sore free at 4 weeks lol
@soontobemommy, ok yea I had an really labor and haven't had any problems or pain since delivering and my bf is counting down the days until my 6 weeks are up
I waited five weeks. Only because it didn't hurt down there anymore. It hurt a little at the beginning but not for long
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I had a natural delivery and 1 desolving stitch. I didn't have any discomfort.