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Sadia Ali
To the single mothers out there , how of you guys deal with it? My baby hasn't arrived yet but I'm extremely freaking out!!! My babies father is confusing as shit. One day he wants to be my fiancé the next day he doesn't. He says only reason why he's messing with me is because of the baby and he is emotionally unbalanced. what the hell does that even mean? Then he's telling me that he is talking to another girl and he has feelings for her but still wants to continue to talk to me even though we are not even together. And keep saying that we will get married in the beginning of the year . what's? I am so freaking fed up I don't even think I should be wearing this engagement ring at all why do you girls think please help?!! Need your input!
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smiley_baby92

Thx @sharlotte hope you and you lil one doing better. Ima just be smart about situations, and not let him play with my emotions. These boys don't know that they have good ones and go lust over other females and think it's right . So not cool!!

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smiley_baby92

Thx @sharlotte hope you and you lil one doing better. Ima just be smart about situations, and not let him play with my emotions. These boys don't know that they have good ones and go lust over other females and think it's right . So not cool!!

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sharlotte

My babies dad was like that too! My son is now almost 2 and he has only seen his dad like 5 times. He says he wants us to be a family but then goes back to his little chicks on the side and parties over seeing his son. It's what ever to me now Iv done it alone since I was 4 months pregnant. He will be there for you and baby if he wants if not kick his lame ass to the curb and do you girl.. It's rough being a single mom but so much better than never having stability with a man.

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smiley_baby92

👆Ride when it comes to this , @nessa524 @may24th and for @uhmandaxconrad92 thanks for sharing your story. It meant a lot to know I'm not the only one .

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smiley_baby92

Thank you so much ladies!!!! I'll just pray and stay strong, and hope for the best!! It's just that I never thought this would happen to me, n I just don't know how to deal with it's . It's always a rolls coaster

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gonzalezpartyof3

I'm not a single mother but I know that you shouldn't let him play you around like that. You and your baby deserve so much better. As the mother of his child he needs to respect you! It doesn't make since that he says he wants to marry you but likes someone else. My opinion give back the ring. An engagement rings is a symbol of the love, devotion, and fidelity a couple shares. You need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. If he can't be 100% committed to you and your baby he is not worth your time. Remember that your baby comes first now and you have to do what's best not only for your baby but also yourself. Praying for you 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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mother.of.angels

Sorry that jut reminded me so much of myself 5 years ago! And I kinda got carried away that's why so many typos.

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mother.of.angels

Girl pawn that ring && walk away.... If he is already acting that way he don't deserve you or that baby! Tell him when he grows up he can cough up some child support and have monitored and limited visitation rights! Guys like him run off with your baby and hide! Keep your baby with you at all times! I even there and done tht! I raise my little girl alllll alone for 3 full years of her little life and I loved it!!!!!! Just me and her!!! She became my best friend! And then you will come across a real man like i did and he will love and protect both you and you child like you deserve!!!! I been with mine for 2 years going on 3! I never wanted to be with anyone other that my daughters father At first but I quickly learned it was best for her! We finally had the Happy family we always wanted and deserved and you will to just be patient and put all your love and attention on you and your baby that's it!!!!! Because you never know when your precious little baby will be taken Away. And you want those memories to be nothing but happiness and love. I know because I lost my daughter 2 weeks ago...she was 5 years old! I'm glad I was strong enough to walk away and worry about her and not him! Other wise her little life would have been spent around arguing an crying and unhappiness and unfaithfulness. You can do it baby girl!!!! You and your baby deserve it!!!!

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missing11user

definitely dont think you should be engaged if thats going on. im a single mom. havent heard from my child's father since I was 12 weeks pregnant. you just gotta take it a day at a time.

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