My husband invited me out to celebrate his cousins birthday. I really didn't feel up to it but I didn't want to be a Debby downer. We had only 45 min to shop n the mall after he got off from work. I found a a dress n a necklace but I didn't have time to find shoes but I figured something I had at home would work. I took my bath, put on my makeup, put in my dress... Then BAM! The shoes don't fit! I try another pair... 🙅🏾 those don't fit. I start to try on every pair of heels I own. 👠s flyin everwhere! Only one pair fit n they look awful with the dress. So I tell him. I can't go... He asked if I have something else to wear. I try the only other option n I look like a pregnant hot mess! So again I say I can't go. N he says " man, u gonna have me goin in here all late." Wtf? I just went thru all this for nothin n that's all u can say? At least u get to go! I blew my freakin lid! I can't deal with the dumb crap that comes out of people's mouths!...I had no idea that my feet were that swollen already! N I know I've gained some weight but really? I'm feeling really depressed right now...