so I've been trying for a while now and it's getting really depressing not have any luck and I'm surrounded my children…

I'm telling yuh that's the only way you'll get pregnant is if you stop trying to get pregnant and relax and enjoy yourself my husband and I tried for months and I lost hope the very month I lost hope and was waiting for my period it never came! And we now have Simon. So definitely just start enjoying yourself :)

thank you very much

keep me posted i would love to see your journey. positive vibes. i hope things work out.

yea I've never been on either and after the first lost I figured I just wasn't meant to have them but the guy I'm with wants one and so do I but feel like every month my period comes I'm letting him down but I'll def make an appointment to talk to my doctor so maybe they can help

i never was on birth control didn't figured i needed it cause i never got pregnant so i figured i couldn't. i didn't even have my first pap smear until my first prenatal appointment. dont feel uncomfortable they are there to help you. 😊 @ayytarbell

I deff will talk to them I just went for my yearly and kinda made me feel weird about not being on north control or anything so I really didn't want to ask questions about getting pregnant but I guess it's all on me to get help so

yeah i cut down on smoking a whole lot try too cut out as much stress as you can. im sorry about your loss. i hope you get your miracle baby soon. just relax it will play out but talk to your doctor if you can. maybe they can help you. @ayytarbell

thank you so much and my sister kinda sad the same as ur she had to two and I am a very loving aunt to both and I just want it to be my turn I was pregnant three years ago but lost it at 12 weeks and ever since then its just been a down hill battle and feels like its never going to happen again for me I do smoke n have been trying to quit buts its hard with the stress of everything and I work crazy hours so I sleep werid times so that might be another problem too but thanks again

i tried for years and years with no luck...my sister got pregnant as as happy as i was for her i was jealous because all i ever wanted my whole life was a baby. then about two years later i had finally gotten to the point i had given up on even trying and i came to realize that i was never going to be a mom. a short time later my sister fell pregnant again i was again so happy for her but jealous because i didnt understand why it couldnt be me. well 4 months later i went to the doctor for allergies to find out i was pregnant...and a couple days later to discover how far i was we found out i was almost 13 weeks. i was a month behind my sister. she had her baby november and mine came in decemeber. i love my niece and nephew but nothing compares to being a mom. what im getting at is i finally stopped thinking about it all the time and i stopped trying to get pregnant and i stopped wishing(around the time my period was supposed to come)that it wouldnt. i didnt really think about it anymore luckily i fell pregnant and i didnt even know. im assuming the stress of not worrying about it so much is what helped.(i still think it was some sort of miracle). you could go to your doctor and tell them you are trying to concieve and see if they can give you something that can help. i talked to my doctor about it(i was already pregnant but didnt know) and she prescribed me metformin(ive seen many other mommys to be talking about metformin as well). so you can see. and see what your options are. dont give up but dont stress and worry over it so much. it will happen. i hope it happens soon for you. ill be looking forward to hopefully seeing you pregnant in a few months. 😉 but do talk to your doctor and see. oh and i also stopped smoking around the time i got pregnant.(idk if you smoke but smoking and drinking can affect your chances.) good luck.