Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
So its been a long time since I've been on here. So much has happened. I don't know if I need to vent or what but I'm so sick of being called a rapes by my own husband because he has sex apnea and every once in a while it happens and i don't know what is happening until he has already inside me and almost about to cum. Every time I don't stop him and wake him up from the act I get called a rapist and told he will call the police and have me arrested for rape and throwing in jail. When it first started happening I had known clue that it happened. Hell he never brought it up until it happened. At first he didn't have a problem with it happened but the last two years it has changed hell our lives and marriage has changed after i cheating on him. I have been trying to find a way to make things better for us but nothing i do helps. I don't think we will ever get passed it.I have suggested we go to counseling anything to help but he says no. We are about to have our 6th child together. 4 before I cheated and 2 after. I know that us having 2 more kids is not the best thing we needed but it happened and I love everyone of my children. I have told him that we need to get a divorce and he says ok but i can't have any one of our children so I continue to stay praying everyday that things will be better and it doesn't. Im at my wit's end. Im halfway out the door and half in. Im not losing or leaving my children with him. Don't get me wrong hes a great dad. And he was a great husband. I just don't know what to do or say or anything anymore more maybe yall moms can help or give me some advice.
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
😵 How do you tell the father of your child that you don't see him as your husband in the future. I love him but I'm not in love with him. He has been asking to get married but I don't know. your supposed to want to be around that person every chance you get. but if he calls me I'm instantly annoyed. if he touches me I get annoyed if he wants a kiss I get annoyed. He is a great guy he loves his baby and he works so hard to provide for us but I'm just meh. I feel guilty and so ungrateful. I'm 19 and he's 22 we've been. together for 2 and a half years and I've known him since elementary school. should I stick with it and make it work or should I let it go. thoughts please
Sydney Baker·
Мама сына-младенца
@jessicagarmal, yes I have...he won't do it...
Sarah Crowder·
nick is kinda the same Sydney like he has my sweet food I guess u can say like my oreos up high where I can't reach them and I have to ask for them some times he says yes some times he says no....he I got my phone back on u should call me and let me know what's going on
Jessica·
В ожидании первенца
have you considered counselling? maybe he could use a third perspective of howhe is treating you
Sydney Baker·
Мама сына-младенца
Yes I've put up with A LOT. but at this point I'm thinking of my son's well being....I don't want him treating girls the way he treats me...like I'm his slave and don't deserve anything unless I ask permission. ...
Mari·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
wow 2yrs is along time of that, maybe it is time to leave then.
Sydney Baker·
Мама сына-младенца
@kelseys, girl I've been telling him to get his shit straight for 2 years....I already left him once...
Mari·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
and he can't really be mad st you for getting a car which you do need not only for yourself but your child as well.
Mari·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
my husband is similar, he always wants to get what he wants but I always have to ask him if I could get something. but it was bad before but it's getting better now because I've started voicing my opinion on things he buys and when I do buy something I always tell him I worked for my money and deserve to treat myself as well. Maybe you should try to tell him how you feel or that he needs to get his priorities straight. it took a few times of saying how I've felt and making a big deal before he actually started to include me in what he was buying and if I said no then he wouldn't but we both give our reasons why and why not to buy things. you shouldn't leave your husband over it, I know it could be miserable but I could also get better.