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Does anybody else have a horrible hatred for their MIL ? my MIL is just such a disgusting horrible excuse for a living…

Does anybody else have a horrible hatred for their MIL ? my MIL is just such a disgusting horrible excuse for a living being. she's a hoarder the house is filled with roaches & she refuses to clean her house not to mention she has 3 kids a little 5 year old a 12 & 15 year old she has the link card but never buys anything for her kids to eat. she uses it.to buy food to make food to sell at work everyday but Never leaves anything for her kids to eat. theyre skin & bones & they hate living there. I live there with my boyfriend our room is the only room in the whole house that is actually clean. We've called DCFS 2 times & they barly did anything. Told her to clean but after she cleaned not even the whole house afterwards she'd let the house go back to a pigstein. I cant fucking stand her. Now that me & my boyfriend were planning our babyshower here she goes doing all this shit without even letting us know. Making all these decisions when its none of her damn business. im moving out after the babyshower & I swear if she even dares to come to my moms house i will flip the fuck out. Imma tell her if you wanna see my daughter i need you to clean your house first intill then your outta luck , go take care of your kids first. I might sound like a bitch but i will never forget what she put us threw living in that house. I had to see all these roaches crawling all over my baby's stuff . Because shes so disgusting. I honestly want nothing to do with her. I wish she wasnt my babies' grandma. I never want to see her again.

Clean house vs playing with your kids This is always a fun one. I often hear the excuse of "I would rather play with my kids then have a spotless house" as a reason for not having a clean house (and I don't mean clutter...I mean actually dirty). Personally I think that's a load of crap. I have quite a few kids who are disgusting pigs....but my house is always company ready and I don't spend all day cleaning in order to keep it looking nice and presentable. Granted I do have indentured servants in the form of children and a husband but even when my kids were babies it was never a difficult thing to accomplish. I spend roughly 1 hour a day cleaning and use the Motivated Moms app (which is awesome) and so have plenty of time to spend with my kids AND have a clean house. So, what's your opinion? Is it really 1 or the other? Or are people making excuses to justify their mess?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

my mom died this morning. She lived with me. this morning she woke up and went to the bathroom. i was on zoom and i…

my mom died this morning. She lived with me. this morning she woke up and went to the bathroom. i was on zoom and i heard a bang. she died in the bathroom. i wasn’t able to open the door or help her. she’s had health issues but this was unexpected. my kids were at home, i had someone come get them. i had to stay in the house with her body until the funeral home came to get her. idk how to tell my kids. they loved her sooooo much. i don’t know how to be at home. i’m just so lost. she was all i had. my dad died when i was 12. idk i just wanted to vent.

My baby girl does not let me do anything all day 😭 I'm lucky if everything is done before my s.o gets home , she cried…

My baby girl does not let me do anything all day 😭 I'm lucky if everything is done before my s.o gets home , she cried so I pick her up to feed her and change her diaper and once she's on my breast she eats and I burp her put her down and she'll cry I get her again and she's on my breast not even latched on just smelling my boobs 😭 I'm like girl really lmao she wants me to carry her or be with her all day , girl I wish I could lmao

I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older…

I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!