this child has been up since 4 am it's now going on 8 she is refusing to sleep and eat and she is screaming and crying and I can't get her to stop... I'm so frustrated with myself because I can't calm her... I'm at a loss ladies...
try skin to skin. it calms them. then put on some white noise. then try to feed her when she's calm.
try to relax(I know, hard) they can sense your frustration. maybe try laying with her on your chest and some calming music. hope she sleeps soon:)