My boyfriends parents are really starting to drive me crazy! My boyfriends mom is acting like she is the mother of my…

My boyfriends parents are really starting to drive me crazy! My boyfriends mom is acting like she is the mother of my daughter and it's really pissing me off! After my daughter was born, she told me to tell the nurses and doctors in the nicu that they could release information to her about my daughters well being and call her if something went wrong. Then she wanted to be on a list to feed her every morning when she's able to take bottles. And she's pissed that she's not able to hold my daughter yet but I can. And since I refused to give her access to my daughters doctors and everything, she constantly bombards me with 10000 questions every time I come home on what the doctors say and she acts like I'm hiding information when there isn't much to say because Emmas doing great! And she's starting to treat me like I'm a little kid, constantly asking if I'm taking my pain meds from my csection and eating every meal and taking my prenatals and trying to make me take naps during the day. AND she refuses to let my boyfriend and I have alone time with our daughter at night! She always comes up when he does..like we need our alone time! We need to bond with her. She's smothering me so much and won't back off! I've also been watching the way she takes care of her grandson and it's really making me not want to let her watch emma. She lets him get away with everything!!! Ugh it's driving me crazy and I don't know what to do!