okay so i need advice ladies..my husband like every other guy likes to play video games and like a lot of you out there…

your welcome it should work out good I did it I only Play racing games so that what we play

very true lol ima try the playing with him thing and see how that works out thank you! 😊 @mrs.hernandez.2013

haha awhh thats actually sweet..i like that idea and i use to like racing games when i was younger and mortal kombat i think ima buy a controller for me to play and a game that we can both play as a valentines present @mommy3rmz

Oh I see lol its the hormones plus guys also need their space and that's how the spend their free time.... try playing a game your a little interested in and play with him I bet he feels the same way he takes you shopping so we must understand them lol @seleneromanortiz12

i guess me pretending im okay with him playing games 24/7 is not something i should be doing cuz its just making the problem worse @elliot.s

@mommy3rmz, what racing game is 2 player?

girl i recommend racing games me n the hubb bet on whos gunna win and end up flirting like when we wer bf n gf which i love kinda rekindles the fire in our love haha (geez i sound cheesy) haha but ur not alone on this i think we all have issues with guys playing games to much i swear i used to say he love that damn game more then me 😒 haha

it doesnt bug me all the time it just bugs me sometimes..i know weird lol but i think part of it is that i feel like he rather spend time playing games than being with me and that doesnt make me feel very good about myself @mrs.hernandez.2013

@seleneromanortiz12, that's not the case ur not being selfish. he probably asks to make sure u don't want to do something with him and it seeming like he only cares for the games

weve talked about it several times we just never come to an agreement because he says he will stop playing but i tell him not to cuz then ill feel guilty and selfish and we just go back and forward lol soo i think ima give playing with him a try and see where it goes 😊 maybe buy a guy id like to play or we both would..im not really into the whole shooting game thing lol @mommy3rmz

why does it bug you is he on it all day and pays 0 attention to you?

o and if u play with him its 100% better because they open up and have fun with you its quality time like i love playing black ops with hubby specially when the kids r in bed :)

try to talk to him i had to suck it up n talk to him even if i felt bad n it worked hes been playing all day everyday but he already told his friends on their and everybody that once baby is here he wwnt be on for a while and if he is ita when he is available so we shall see what happens but i learned that conversations work alot better then yelling and getting mad :) lol

im glad im not the only one with this issue lol

yeah thats what ima do..cuz he has been telling me we need to buy another controller so i can play too so i will do that and try and find a game we can both play together thank you @elliot.s my husband always asks me first too before but when he asks i cant ever say no cuz then ill feel bad even though i want to say no lol thats my problem @areneeb

My husband is really stressed after work so we came to an agreement where he can play for 2 hours to relax then we must spend time together :) it works pretty well

my bf only plays when I'm not home or if i let him, he always asks me tho first. he's sweet lol but when he asks I'm like "you can play xbox if you massage me n clean the cat litter box" haha

@seleneromanortiz12, I haven't either but I found a game its sorta fun. Diablo its one u can pick up and he can and u won't have to learn like shooterup games. I don't either play while u still get the chance I always say. when that baby is here there won't be much time.

true..he even said it himself its his way of forgetting about everything so i cant blame him for wanting to play games its his thing and i dont want to take it away from him..id feel really guilty and selfish. ima see if i can try and get into it ive never really been into video games lol @elliot.s

@seleneromanortiz12, my husband does it all the time. but he's getting to where he doesn't turn it off and we fight.. as long as he does and doesn't make a big deal about it I'd say let him play and see if u can join in on the fun too. its a way a guy can let all the stress out instead of yellen

yeah thats what he said..he said if u want me to turn it off to spend time with you or help u something just tell me but i feel like if i tell him hey spend some time with me turn the game and he does it..i feel like hes only gonna do it cuz i asked him to not cuz he wants to you know ? @elliot.s

maybe try playing with him. or make it to a point where u say if I need ur help u pause or turn it off