I wish my boyfriend would help me.... I mean I was in the ER all night and he kept telling me to…
I wish my boyfriend would help me.... I mean I was in the ER all night and he kept telling me to just go home because he was tired and I told him he could leave and i would have my mom pick me up. he continued to bitch the whole time we were there and it didn't make me feel any better. so today I wake up and my head is throbbing and my whole body hurts and I don't feel good. I asked for help with our one year old and he said no, of course. then I was laying on my floor and told him I'm super dizzy and lightheaded and it feels like my head was going to explode and feels hot in my head and he ignored me, then drank the water I brought in the room. then I asked if he could make a PBJ and grab a gogurt for paisley and he said yeah I will later. so 45 mins goes by and I get up and go get it cause he's lazy and has been on his phone all fucking day. he wouldn't even help me clean her up after lunch or anything.... he's like go in the room if you don't feel good, we'll it's bright as hell because he pulled the curtains down and I'm super sensitive to light. and he's been saying rude ass sexual comments too....
ugh sorry for the language. rant over.
but seriously, has anyone else been contemplating leaving their SO because of them being rude or lazy? I'm so tired of it. idk how I'm going to do it with 2 babies
Sydney Baker·
В ожидании первенца
leave him girl! you deserve so much better!
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
I know, I seriously do. he doesn't help me with anything. my only problem is that I don't work, so he's my only income and he only works 3 days a week.. (around 10-15 hours) ugh. it's so frustrating
Kayla·
Мама дочки-младенца
Im going through the same thing To the point I just moved back home and even though he come over every day to "help" its like I get a attitude from him when I ask for him to feed or change our 1month old then says I'm annoying he really irks my nerves VERY BAD
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
@jordynmom, I'm sorry to hear that. I didn't get help at all when my daughter was an infant and still don't :( i feel like it never gets better
Kayla·
Мама дочки-младенца
@emilyyy96___, Well Were strong women . we will be just fine . , we just have to keep telling ourselves we got this && in the end look back && say we did it on our own basically
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
exactly. people are like "at least they're there." no, it doesn't matter. Cause now I have to pick up after two "children" cause he's lazy as hell. I just want to pack my shit and leave but we live with my mom so that's not really an option
Brandi·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I'd tell him to go then. That's ridiculous!
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
I know :( ugh and talking to him doesn't do anything. he's sleeping right now while I'm trying to entertain my daughter and Disney Jr doesn't help headaches lol @junebaby
yeah I'm about to tell him to hit the road because he doesn't do anything
🌺Sabrina🌺·
Girl bye@emilyyy96___ I can't tell you to stay or go, but baby I can tell you that you can do bad all by yourself, especially with two lil ones 😘
Brandi·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Trust me that it won't ever change. I spent 3 years trying to change one man and 8 years trying to change another. You and your babies deserve better. Don't ever settle for less than you deserve. I finally found a wonderful man who loves me and my kids and you will too.
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
awww thanks ladies! @mrssabby @junebaby it's hard because we're about to have our second and we've been together going on 4 years :/ I don't see it lasting more than 3 months between us.... sure does suck.
🌺Sabrina🌺·
@emilyyy96___, no problem but don't ever settle and if it's meant to be he will come back and when he does he will come back correct, but until you or him leaves the only people I'd be cooking or cleaning and taking care of is me and my baby
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
exactly :) just hoping for the best for the kiddos. @mrssabby
🌺Sabrina🌺·
@emilyyy96___, I understand im praying for ya girlie 😉😉😉😉😘😘😘😘😘
Emily·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)
thanks love! @mrssabby