*and doesn't

she can't claim the baby she isn't the parent or doesnt support you

stay strong mama! that was completely messed up what they both did! you are the mother and can do whatever you feel is necessary to protect baby girl!

i know it @firefly and thank you to you and every one else

We support you honey!

ok i will...i need too...i just need to be brave enough to do it! @firefly

seriously just go down to the court house they will help you

You can take your baby where ever you want with out his consent

i am!!! i going to go talk to people and firgure out what all my options are! @firefly i mean shes not doing it reguardless but if they did this then theres no telling what else they will do.

and I'd get the hell out of that crazy household

I'd Google the tax laws for your state

yeah theres no way shes not claiming me or my child...over my dead body! @firefly

@firefly, thats ridiculous she doesnt support us....i just moved in here right before my baby was born....2 days before the year ended...

If she is claiming head of household and you both live there and do not work then yes she can claim you and your child as depents

Have to go through court to change her last name.

@firstbaby_girl, i know he is i want to go in there and cause a scene. lol not a huge one but maybe get my point accross si that he doesnt do this to anyone again.

that tax guy is a dick for allowing that to happen. and I'm not sure how hun

@mommybump3, i will....im not really worried about cs or money....i could care less...i just need to see what my options are and be prepared. im still confused on what to do. its like in my mind i know what i should do but then my heart gets in the way and it makes me sad. but i cant think about just me anymore. :(

oh im sorry you gotta go through this :-/ now i read your whole comment just now:)... the last part about changing her last name eekk idk if thats a good idea, im not sure where you live but i know in texas the attorney general makes us change the childs last name to the dads last name if you tend to put him on child support... he said he does that because he gets so many kids when they get older wanting to change their last name. i had my daughters last name as mine up untill she was almost 2 and they made me change it when i filed for CS :( ... I would look into that.

@firefly, i dont think he could either he has some charges that im sure would make it impossible but the thought of it still scares me. im going to go talk to a lawyer and see what my options are. @mommybump3 apparently to them they think that she has the right and no i didnt. i was going to get a job then i found out i was pregnant and he wouldnt let me get one... @brittanymetzger7988 it just makes me so upset that they would do that. @seleneromanortiz12 to him and his family i guess i have no say he makes all the decisions when it comes to anything and when i say anything he just says well its not up to you! @rachel8792 she doesnt pay for anything for my child. im not a bad mom or an unfit mother but the thought of him trying and winning just scares me so bad.

@g07282015 well supposively since his mom got permission from him the tax guy said that she could do it which i dont think is right because she my child too....idk hopefully this doesnt escalate any further... i have all her things so... @firstbaby_girl i guess its not...they have done it before. and the tax guy gave them the go ahead without my permission which i dont think is right at all. how would i go about changing her last name?

you can change her last name too

report her. that's fraud. I would move out too. sounds like their interest is just in how much the baby will get them. do what's right for your baby hun. @juliagail09

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my mom is a tax accountant. I know. :)

they can get in huge trouble if they do it without your permission. if they do, report it and they'll have to show you signed something and if you didn't, they are shit out of luck.

@juliagail09, unless she truly pays for more than 50% of the baby which i doubt she does, cuz thats what im sure she has her son doing i would report her, then they can look into all her taxes and audit her... im sorry girl but i would be pissed

he cant take her away from you, unless you prove to be an unfit mother

report her to the IRS ..leave him and take him to court if he tries to take your baby away from you..he had no right going behind your back and doing that..shes your daughter too you have say in what goes on with her. @juliagail09

@juliagail09 Well FIGHT for Ur precious baby. I can tell Ur not that type bout money. I don't kno really what to say. I'm srry. But maybe u need to take the baby to Ur parents or somewhere else get away from each other for awhile.

uhm just because she has the same last name does not give her right to claim your child..did you have a job last year? & dont worry about him taking her away from you. a judge will not grant the father custody of a child unlesd the mother is a drug addict and cant take care of a child. . you have no worry there momma!

Girl he can't take her away do you know how hard and how much money in court cost it would take. Leave that house take that baby and go to your moms! Go down to the court house and file for primary residence and child support

Report her to the IRS

im so scared he will take her away from me...im a good mom....he has neber ever changed her and hes olny fed her like 3 times. @firefly

@junebaby, ^^^^

no apparently shes done it before and my baby has the same last name as her so they will let her do it! -.- i dont care about the money... @brittanymetzger7988

Go to court get child support done with you have full legal Ness of her

i told my boyfriend that they are acting like shes a dollar sign @mthuntress and i have her ssn in my wallet that i keep a close eye on! @sexii_diiva. i thought it was terrible as well but apparently im in the wrong @zionsmummy apparently its totally legal they have done it before and the tax guy said she could do it @jellybeansmommie

report her to the irs

HELL NO!!! I thought they had to have both parents for the claiming of the children??? U told him no n he went behind ur back. WTF! shit is that! Leave him. That's very disrespectful of him doing that it's Ur baby u have the right to stand up n say NO! I always say its good to have both parents but sometimes it's best to jus be by urself. I can't sit here n tell u what u should do but follow Ur heart it knows best for u. Good luck

report her ass to the irs!

Wow that's really unacceptable 😒 I'm sorry you have to go threw that

hide that SSN from them && him as well...can you claim your own child? if not get a family member on your side you trust && get them to claim the baby.... or a close friend.... but like I said hide that ssn

You have every right to be upset. That is YOUR child. Not his mothers. Protect YOUR child from greed. It's not healthy for you or your baby