im already pregnant and didnt know at the time! this is why I am freaking out I have the addiction under control and have a placebo that isnt suppose to harm the baby

I'm definitely not judging you, but I do agree that you should wait until you're completely back on track to try for a baby. The first trimester is the most crucial time of pregnancy where everything you do has a direct affect on the fetus and when birth defects are the most likely to occur. We aren't even allowed to take certain cold meds or ibuprofen, I can't imagine how an anxiety med that "messes you up" could be safe. I don't doubt you'd be a good mom but start that process now by doing what's best for a baby if you're going to actively try to have one.

This sickens me. Sorry..

why would you take anything if your trying to conceive a child? just saying you have an addiction problem isnt gonna be a good enough excuse for the poor baby youll affect with pills. if i were you id stop trying to have a baby until you get some professional help like rehab or something.

I stopped already its only been 2 days since I started the benzos than I went to doctors and got that they new there was a possibility of pregnancy but not sure hcg hormore isnt high enough. I stopped taking it yesterday because I freaked out I was only taking 5 3 mg bars...

@alhynele, I asked for no negativity. unless your here to help please dont even comment. and @tinymommy thanks for the advice and i might be 2 weeks right now because last month I only had spotting. I just want to make sure if I am that im not harming my baby.

I hope this helps you some how and does not offend you

You're not pregnant yet so stop trying till u get your shit together

this medication is to help me and it wont harm my baby. wasnt tryjng to be rude either just trying to prove that I did get controll of my addiction.

I had a hardcore drug addiction for three years I had been doing acid, morphine, a variety of pills, I had tried heroine and did that for one year, I also had tried meth but luckily for me I only did meth one time. then January of last year I got arrested and went to jail but since I was a minor I was only in juvenile detention for two months. they let me out in beginning of march. I was on supervised probation they said it was going to for 18 months.. but I stayed clean the whole time and did everything I was supposed to do so they let me off in six months . some where around august (when I was still on probation) I got pregnant and didn't know it I had been drinking a lot n my probation officer never found out so I kept doing it and then in October I found our I was pregnant.. I was 18 weeks pregnant... I freaked out because I had been drinking and smoking cigarettes and got a Dr appointment right away... luckily my doctor said there was no phyiscaly noticeable damage.. and that it was a low risk case for anything because I hadn't drank or smoked to much... but there was still a chance .... know that I was pregnant I stopped drinking and smoking cold Turkey I knew I had a little baby in me and I wasn't going to harm my child even while still in the womb I'm now 24 weeks pregnant and super healthy and happy... if you really want a child (I know this is going to sound harsh but I'm not saying it to be a bitch I'm saying to be a friend..) you need stop any harmful things and you need make sure your eating right and make sureyour partner not only supports you but also that they aren't doing the drug you like because that males it very hard to quit... if u want a childyou need to know that being pregnant is a huge responsibility .. pregnancy is the start of a child's life... its life or death for a baby... not a win/lose game.

im sorry I dont believe in god not to offend you or what you believe in but I believe in an after life and miricles.

I agree with mommybump3 there is someone to talk too, he's God! You can try talking to a pastors wife at a trusted church

my advice would be to talk to someone close to you. we dont know you to give you good advice on thw subject. it might be easier to talk face to face with someone

im also healthy again and eatting ans 100 pounds