Mom.life
blackbutterfly14
blackbutterfly14
blackbutterfly14
Are all my married ladies had/having a difficult time in their marriage due to pregnancy? We are fine in every aspect except when it comes to this baby and Idk. Looks like it's gon be unbearable once the baby come. I don't wanna be one of those couples where children destroyed our marriage.
12.01.2015
3

Лучший комментарий

Комментарии

missing3user
missing3user·Мама четверых детей
yes! It did.. he wants more kids I'm like nooooo 😩 lol. he is a very simple guy my man doesn't smoke nor drink he's not a party type neither he rather go to movies stay home play his video games and watch t.v.
even tho he looks like the type lol. anyways it's worth the fight in the end especially for my kids they see mommy and daddy love each other and they learn from that.
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
blackbutterfly14
aww. it worked out for y'all: D @mrs.oliva
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
missing3user
missing3user·Мама четверых детей
I'm on baby #4 with the man that I've been with for 9 years going on 10 years this year. I was 15 he was 16
when we started I got preg with our first a year later at 16 and him 17.
it took him a minute because we were so young but he got a hang of it and no doubt he has the most patience especially newborns he loves to hold and sing to them. he will sit there until they stop crying because there gassy EVEN if he has to go to work the next day.. its been 5 years since we have had a newborn and he says he is so ready to do everything beside feed baby.. I love him with all my heart and we have been through a lot together but our love never FAILS and we love our children and it all has came together 😊
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
sexii_diiva
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
😂😂😂😂
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
blackbutterfly14
lol. yeah. and I will be forever teased as the sellout by the hubby@sexii_diiva
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
sexii_diiva
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
well when you actually have the baby I'm sure it will be different. you'll probably be so happy
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
blackbutterfly14
I try. I try. I'm just having a hard Time letting go of what could've been. sigh. @sexii_diiva
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
blackbutterfly14
Oh. crap. LOL . Damn. u really ain't see that one coming did you@ljjones
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
sexii_diiva
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
ooo well yea that could be an issue .. even tho it wasn't planned you have to look at it from his point of view... if you were excitesd -& he wasn't you would be hurt a bit because it takes 2 to tango.. I mean don't lie about how you feel -& stuff but you know ...I know he hurt a bit cuz you're not all excited
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
d0llface_j3y
Jessika Knowles 🐼·Мама сына (10 лет)
Mine was too much jagger antibiotics that caused my birth control not to work lol
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
mrssabby
🌺Sabrina🌺·Мама троих детей
This is baby number 3 for us, but I think in every relationship married or not, a baby is a huge commitment and both parties need to be on the same page when trying to get pregnant and the details of the pregnancy and what you want need to be expressed and agreed upon before getting pregnant, for example me hate doctors offices, they are impatient and hate waiting and that's all men even if they don't say it, do stuff like that needs to be worked out, because it's both of you all having a baby and we as women have to make our demands and pick our battles wisely, I was off work on bed rest from jul-sep and then I was threw in bed jail in nov and been off and won't back to work til March, I get a lil disability check from work, but my husband pays all the bills, gases the cars, and takes care of all the huge stiff, I just get snacks or save my money, he cooks, he cleans and he works two jobs his main job he works 10hrs 6days and bounces on the weekends, but every situation is different, sit down and talk to him tell him what you want and need, but be nice and pleasant and do make it an ultimatum, men sometimes have to be told what we need, when and why, I hope things get better, oh also some men get jealous my husband did with our first, u gotta make sure you make intimate yall time happen and still make him feel special and appreciated even though your the pregnant one lol
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
blackbutterfly14
child. I know! @ljjones
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
blackbutterfly14
we talked. we gonna take care of baby and all but I still feel some type of way. and he feels some way about my feelings and we cannot find a common area except it was unplanned. like I took precautions. I brought protection. How the hell do u think nothing was gonna happen one time?! @d0llface_j3y
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
ljjones
My DH will be the main caretaker and I work. But I'm afraid we will end more roommates than lovers when LO comes. :(
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
blackbutterfly14
In regards to that. we don't have an issue. it's more of a personal thing. He feels some type of way because I haven't been uber excited about the baby. and I refuse to be public about it. like. I had a plan. I took incentives. he messed up once and now. baby on board and I'm suppose to act like this was planned. no. uh huh. and he's upset I let it be known. don't ask me to lie about my feelings which he don't wanna talk about, I'm just here. Forced to be happy in publics eye. like. I dont like you people- _- @sexii_diiva
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
d0llface_j3y
Jessika Knowles 🐼·Мама сына (10 лет)
I did my second trimester but m husband and I are also very young never had a child of our own before this. We're both fine because we finally talked about it instead of keeping it bottled up
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
sexii_diiva
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
girl no problems here but these girls make me nervous saying how they husbands don't help out && stuff... they think just cuz they work && woman isn't they don't have to have much time with baby... I mean my husband real supportive now... he pays all the bills && still cooks && cleans so I don't think we will have a problem because we talked about rotating the baby so one can sleep && he is so excited saying the baby gonna be on his. side of the bed && stuff so I'm hoping it stays like that
12.01.2015 Нравится Ответить
Читайте также