Never did I expect feeling this way after the baby was born. I don't understand it, I was sooo happy a week ago. Now this overwhelming feeling of anxiety and feeling like EVERYTHING has changed for the rest of my life. I expected it to change but did not expect this feeling. The worse part is, I feel close to normal during the day but at night, it just gets so bad. I feel like nothing will ever be the same, and I thought I expected it, but why do I feel this huge knot in my throat, like I'm just not okay right now :'(
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@babyboolala You always make me feel better with your words!! Thank you !!
Ur welcome babygirl! I'm praying with u always so just remember ur never alone!!! @bronxmade
I really,really appreciate you @babyboolala ..these last few days have been a struggle but after reading your comments and praying I feel a little better..thank you..! 😘😘
Lol well thank God!!! Let us know what helps.... you may be experiencing this situation right now so you can help the next young lady get through it cause she won't be able to do it without you! 😘😘😘
@babyboolala Im gonna try it all, I have read that about sunshine helps brighten up someones mood. Thank you so much for listening, for your words. It makes me feel so much better to let it all out and actually have someone understand, I just love this app lol
I'd go talk to your ob next time you see him about post partum depression he'll be able to either help you or send you to someone who can if he also sees you might have it and if you do doesn't mean you are weak you're strong because you too the initive to get better for your child
Emotions are so demanding.. The Bible says the heart is deceitful, who can know it? God will help you and get you through it all guaranteed! Keep on praying and crying out to him and read the Word of God spending time with Him. If you're fallin in love with God ur not going to have much time for too much else. AND YOU LOSE NOTHING BY DOING THIS. And so then on the natural side of things you have a chemical imbalance in your brain (of course from pregnancy and labor ) and your mind is going haywire because of these hormones.. The key is here is to realize what's reality and what is not! You gotta stay focused on the fact that these are just feelings and they hold no weight!!! And you need to speak to a doctor, perhaps, about what you can do to help you on the natural side. It doesn't have to be medicine unless you so choose! When I'm feeling down something as simple as opening up all the curtains in the house letting all the sunshine in and drinking a cold glass of water helps. Taking a walk or working out! Right @olladysaidy You see what I mean boo? Let God help you and you'll be just fine baby girl
@bronxmade that is just how I am right now.. I can't enjoy anything, even watching tv is a struggle, my mind keeps thinking and thinking, and I don't know what I think about so much. I feel this endless need to cry and cry. @babyboolala I need those prayers more than ever, I just cried my eyes out in the bathroom and pleaded out to God to please take this feeling away from my heart, I want to be my normal self I was a week ago, what happened to me? I was happy sooo happy, excited, couldn't wait for this new journey, my new baby. I love him and the only thing that makes me feel better is when I hold him close and cry with him, or crying my eyes out for 5 minutes, then the feelings go away a bit. Is this really normal in your experience or do I need help? I'm just 1 week postpartum :(
God made the body! God made the spirit! that means you ladies gotta keep Him in the equation! He is definitely the solution to find joy and comfort! I'm going to be praying for you all over and over again as long as you need me too! This too shall pass! Joy comes in the morning! The Sun shines after the rain! 😘😘 @bronxmade @alicia91 @alicia91 @rp22 @d0llface_j3y
I am not an emotional person so me crying and feeling like this is really catching me off guard.going from being really uncomfortable with her pregnant to having her n feeling this is crazy.I'm the happiest I have ever been but I miss being pregnant n then I have all these different emotions going on @alicia91
@babyboolala Thankyou! ♥ @bronxmade And I will for you, hun! Its just crazy, I absolutely love my baby but wish I didn't feel so overwhelmed with this new experience.
@january10th I have some hope then. I cried and fell asleep a while ago and just crying a little bit kind of made me feel better.. I hope this goes away soon though, I hate feeling this way!!!
I have been feeling the same way..I will be praying for you though.. @alicia91
it goes away I promise! you are not a failure! nobody is ever fully prepared for motherhood you did the best you could to be prepared for 2 babies. I felt the same way after I had my second baby it went away slowly after 3 weeks I was fine.
@january10th @rp22 Please Please tell me it goes away. The first day home was BAD, I was feeling horrible. It's gotten a LITTLE better during the day but when it starts getting dark outside I DON'T KNOW what happens. I can't even stop crying right now, I feel like such a failure as a mom because I thought I was more than ready and I can't even believe this is happening.
Be careful of post partum depression can sneak up on u
It's the baby blues and I had them too. I get everything you're going through. If this persists over 3 weeks you need to see a doc though cause it could turn into post partum depression.
Awww :'( I'm so sorry you are feeling this way I know what its like I used to just sit on my bed with both my kids & look at them & cry. it'll all be okay, all of this is temporary & it will pass I promise.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
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There is too much sexy going on! I was incredibly guilty of it in my younger days, too. But as I get older and look at pictures that women are proud of I actually get embarrassed for them. What happened to old fashioned modesty? I change clothes if my v neck t-shirt shows too much! I know my younger self would be laughing at me right now, but I have definitely changed my perspective as I have gotten older and become a mom! Does anyone else feel this way or have I just ...
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My child is NOT disgusting just because he has HFMD. I feel beyond awful that he even has it, but now I feel like facking shat since my family makes it seems like he's so disgusting. I'm just gonna lay in bed and cry ??
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Have any of you mamas did a BIG chop or just plain ol go bald? I feel like I damaged my hair too much and the texture and curls aren’t the same anymore. I hate it!
aww always here booskii 😘