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I have a question. My bf has 3 nieces. I usually keep the little one from time to time. My baby is due in April. Is it…

I have a question. My bf has 3 nieces. I usually keep the little one from time to time. My baby is due in April. Is it selfish of me to not want to keep her 2 weeks before my due date. I don't want her to see me go into labor and I'd like some time to get things together and rest before. I also don't want to keep her for the next two months afterwards because I want to adjust to being a mom. And another thing his other two nieces will get out of school sometime after the baby is born for summer break. I do not want to keep all three because they do not listen to me at all when I have them all together. Whether they are in my home or theirs. They are too loud and wild. I don't want them aggravating my baby or waking him from his nap because they refuse to listen. Am I being selfish or am I in the right?

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tattooedwho

tattooedwho

i dint think it's selfish at all.

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courtney89

Courtney

my mom said the same thing. one of the older ones almost broke my glass coffee table the last time she was over that my mom bought me. she thought jumping on top of it was cool I lost it and went off

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alhynele

Alhy Berry

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You're not being selfish at all. I can't imagine having to deal with kids right before im due and when my baby is a newborn. U need that time to bond with your baby, u don't need to be worrying about someone else's kids.

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