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Good! I'm glad you got out of there. My boyfriend didn't even lay hand on another woman and I could barely look at him. I hope he realizes how stupid he is from messing up like that. Do something for yourself today! Get a massage or go out for a nice dinner with your mom or someone! Relax and take time for yourself! I'm so sorry you have to deal with this while pregnant
@sexii_diiva, I'll probably stay the weekend away and head home on Sunday to get my room downstairs situation solved. move all my clothes ect. I just can't trust him right now and it sucks
y'all are married . oo well yea def give him a hard time... it wasn't physical so I don't think you should leave because this is something y'all can get thru. I am married as well && that's what I would do... stay away a week... then go back. act like a roommate... don't cook for him..don't wash his clothes or anything... don't do anything you usually do so he know what its like for you to really be gone. make a point that you do a lot for him && you don't have too. be selfish -& do things just for you!
@sexii_diiva, will do. Either way he knows I will. . Since we are married. . I'm debating If I should just act like a room mate. till he earns it back
even if you taking him back give him a hard time && dont let him know you're taking him back!! wait at least a week or 2.. easier said then done but be strong mommy
@kaity0117, after I found out I packed my bags and my mom came to get me. I'm now an hour away and left him as soon as she got there. I just couldn't even look at him I was so pissed I kept saying don't touch me every time he tried to hug me after saying sorry.. I needed to get out so she came to the rescue. I totally agree the fact that what he did was wrong and childish. I just hope he changes I didn't tell him when I'm coming home or even if I'm coming home. I just grab ed a few things and left after yelling at him and he just sat there and took it. Then took his ring off my hand and gave me his back. I think he felt guilty
You need to take time. If you don't mind me suggesting go stay with a friend or family for a day or two. You need time to think girl. When you do talk to you whether you want to work it out or walk away you need to think about what is true to your heart. I'm really sorry you have to go through this. He needs to know how badly he hurt you and work to hard to gain your trust back. Me and my bf have had disagreements about what is and is not okay. I left for the night over him what I thought was in interacting on live porn websites... I'm still hurt by what happened. He was so scared that I walked away that I know nothing like that has happened since. But honey cheating is a serious offence. And you need to make it clear that it is not okay, that he is going to need to prove himself to you and eventually gain back your trust. If that means that if you feel something is wrong and you ask to see his phone he should let you because nothing should be there. And make it clear that if it ever happens you will walk out the door. Nobody needs to stay for that. But first of all... Take time away for you girl... Take time to cry or scream or whatever it is that is going to get you through the anger portion so you can start healing... With or without him. Sending you thoughts of strength... Getting through this will make you stronger if you do it right :) your gonna be a mom... Would you allow your son or daughter to cheat? Or them to be cheated on?? Someone is going to raise your children with you needs to set an example...
I know....I've gone threw the same thing. but it was with a guy I was with in high school. so we where not as far serious as you two. If you know in your heart it will never be the same, then move on. its easier said than done, but if you know is what is right for you and your baby, keep your chin up and move forward. I wish you the best of luck sweety, and I'll be here if you ever want to talk💕
@18andpregnant, yeah I she but I dunno if I can trust him.. He claims or was a one time thing and he made himself sick doing it but I just I dunno. . It take a lot to regain it
that's not ok. ok. I'm going to tell you how I'd react. take it as advise if you agree:
if has never cheated on you before, or giving you any other reason to not trust him, mabey another chance? but if JTS strike 2 kick his ass to the curb and collect child support! but if this was a first time thing, and they didn't get physical, or messing around with her, then I'd understand you staying with him but having trust issues. this is one of those situations where you need to sit down and really think about it. is he worth datying with and trying to work things out or is it not worth the effort. could you move past it, or will it sit in the back of your mind. do you love him? if you think it will eat you alive every day it probably isn't worth it bc it will just get to you and your relationship will fall apart bc trust and communication is such a big deal in a healthy relationship.
wow....you cought him!?
where they sleeping together? or you read msgs?...
No. I'm a wreck I caught him. And he denied it at first. Then when I snapped he admitted
oh no 😰 are you ok?....
did it happen resently?
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good! I'm sure it will hard but try to put it in the back of your mind and enjoy yourself a little today! You deserve to have a good day today! Even if it's only good for part of the day!