My step daughter asked her daddy to make sure she is there when the baby is born. She is 5. I almost feel kinda bad that I don't want her there. I just want it to be my mother && my husband to be honest. I truly don't even care for visitors at the hospital either. I just wanna wait awhile. Anyone else feel like this?
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@mrssabby lol yes I know.. I'm usually the 1st one to take a pic with someone else child lol... now I'll have my own 😂😂
@sexii_diiva, lol for real girl you know how people are with their phones
but plan on having no one there if that's what you want cus if you don't change your mind then you'll be okay @sexii_diiva
@d0llface_j3y yes I agree @mrssabby 😂😂😂 selfies @brooklynnbby lol well maybe I will change my mind
honestly you might change your mind once the baby is here I was the same way when I was pregnant as soon as I had brooklynn I wanted my mom and dad to come up and then my gramma showed up and it was awesome! now my fiancés mom is a different story I did NOT want her to come up I didn't even wanna deal with her she is awesome and we get along great but she is sooo annoying but I dealt with it
Only me and hubby in the room, everyone else can wait plus it's a surprise and I don't want nobody taking selfies and Instagram shots spoiling it for those who are not there
Honestly weird to have children in the delivery room maybe after but Why introduce a child to something like child birth so early just so they can be traumatized till they fully understand.
@kaity0117 its just all complicated... thats why we trying to file for joint custody to get his daughter on certain days permanently so there won't ever be any confusion && she can't change her mind at the last minute!!
Couldn't his mom bring the daughter? Then her mom doesn't have to bring her bitterness around :)
yes girl cry! works every time! but I hope everything goes well so you won't be stressed out @sexii_diiva
@mrsruvalcaba 😂😂😂😂😂😂 like I said I doubt she will be there because then he would have to figure out who gonna come back && get her because of course he is sleeping there. plus we gotta work around 1st baby mama schedule as well & she gonna act stank.. lol but if he says she may come then I'll remember to start crying dramatically lol
I hope he understands you mean no bad in the situation and he just brings his daughter around when your at home instead of the hospital and pour your eyes out so he can give in to lol @sexii_diiva
@iisavana lol see that's what I don't want to happen. I don't want to come off rude.. I don't want to many hands on my baby. && if someone kiss my baby I'm gonna be like don't kiss my baby. I know I'm gonna sound like a total bytch. @mrsruvalcaba @kaity0117 I'm sure he wants his daughter there but its complicated.. we only have my car && I'm not allowing him to leave the hospital unless he is going to get some food or extra clothes since we live down the street from hospital. && baby mama bitter so like I said she damn sure ain't bring in the baby to the hospital. so I'm not worrying about that aspect its more of his family. && he looked at me crazy when I said I don't want any visitors except immediate family as in my mom his mom && his sister. but we live on the other side of town so we may not even have to worry about that lol... plus this not his 1st child. you know when its someone 1st child everyone cones to hospital but if its 2nd them they don't mind waiting. well I'm hoping its like that. its my 1st child but my mother is my only famoly member in this state
I understand. My father in-laws best friend tried to invite herself to the hospital for when I deliver, and I finally told her "Look, you're not family and I don't want you there." She was offended, but she's not family....so I get how you feel.
you shouldn't feel bad it your first baby, but you should def talk to your husband about it. I only want my hubby n mom there and of course my boys after @sexii_diiva
I would talk to your husband about this! I know the only people is want in the delivery process is my midwife, mom, bf and if my older sister was able to. Visitors I might allow after a bit maybe after some rest and shower time. And then only close family, otherwise they can visit at home. You need to do what you feel is right but your husband and you should talk about it. It might important to him for his daughter to meet baby soon after birth! And you could work out a comprise :)
that too. I know her mom not bringin her there.. when we come home yea because my husband is taking a vacation..
@mrs.oliva lol @january10th I don't feel bad. I'm not the only one
ME!!!! I want no one there after the baby is born I wanted it to just be us since my fiance will only have 2 days off :( my kids are obviously gonna come visit but as for other visitors I really don't want anyone there
lol.. I was the same with all my kids I made sure everyone cleaned their hands didn't kiss my baby on the face etc.... this time I don't want no visitors only the ppl I want. I really don't want my MIL to come can't stand her.
@elliot.s I just don't think its a big deal. she can see when the baby comes of course. I know she not gonna be there anyway. her mama not gonna drop her off at the hospital
@mrs.oliva lol my husband family gonna think I'm acting too stank.. lol I don't want anyone kissing the baby.. I don't want you to even breath that much on my baby. I guess I'm just nervous.. I even want the baby to always sleep on my side of the bed (in the bassinet) but my husband keep saying how excited he is && how the baby gonna be on his side as well lol I can't say nothing. he did help me make this baby
@sking0921 lol I know.. it would be fair if its just my mom.. I know his mom gonna wanna come && more of his family. my family doesn't live here. but I want a few weeks with just me && my baby but that's unrealistic
its your first so of course u feel this way lol. me I want my kids and my hubby and my Mom and my sister no men tho beside the hubby lmao.
No. my step mother did the same thing to me when my little brother was born. we are not speaking and I don't want her in the room. she's ur daughter too
Yes.. I feel the same way, I want it to be calm and stress free as possible. its not gonna happen lol!
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
@sexii_diiva, see told you, nope that's why they ousted they can come in after we get cleaned up and to the house of course, no drive bys they gotta call an schedule appointments lol