since I'm concerned about if I should name my sweet babies, whit dad's name , I need some help, he…

I didn't put my 2 child he's dad's name and so far is the best thing I had ever did

If he has no interest in stepping up as a man to be a father then he doesn't deserve for your babies to have his last name.

I come in and out the country with out having 2 ask him I don't need his a Proval in nothing I diced what happens with my son in everything

honestly from my point of view it was the worst mistake I ever did! my daughter had his last name we weren't together had to get approval from him to leave state! and the best part was he was never around, didn't do a thing for her was Mia for almost 2 yrs! I am so thankful she asked him to change her name cause she didn't want her mommy an her having different names!! the best an only thing he did for her. Good luck do what you think is right for you and the Lil one

I didn't with my first born and its been great, no regrets. He was never around my pregnancy or for him so why put his last name. Na thanks..

I guess we all think that it will be better with out using his last name. ;)

I haven't been in that situation but if he isn't there && won't be then why should he have that privileged. I feel if he steps up you can always change it! good luck to you 😉

my cousin andrew was born with his mothers last name. he thought about changing it to his fathers now that he is 18, but hes proud to have his mothers name, and to be the only one in our family to carry on the name. he has his fathers name tattooed on his arm.