Just try to stick thru it for baby

Omg meeeeee tooooooooooo everytime we tried nothing happend we been together on and off for 8 years and finally August 30 I found out

Thats right we're here for you! However I have to disagree with the way your husband is behaving. @godsgift24 my husband doesn't behave and he's patiently waiting for me. if I'm uncomfortable he would never want me to do that! That's the privilege of having a saved husband that loves God! Sometimes u hafta demand understanding and compassion! If you give too much and they keep taking then you should stop giving!.Praying for our men right now! 😘😘

@courtney_boyea, it is super difficult isn't it!!! Aww that's awesome we're due days buddies!! We'll I am always here for you as we'll. they think we are super women/mom let's just pray pray pray

oh my god @meganc I am so sorry you are going through these problems. my husband and I went through this with our first pregnancy and then with this one it's a little better but we still have our issues because he feels I don't give him enough attention. its so tough balancing everything I mean we are only one person here and although we have another human growing in us doesn't give us super strength to do everything. I am always here if you need anything. I mean we are due date buddies haha.

@godsgift24, @mama_bear @makeartnotwarr69 thank you ladies all I have is y'all and my mom. My boyfriend was on the list so time will tell I really appreciate it and @makeartnotwarr69 your secret is safe loll :)

haha your secret is safe with us . have a great rest of the day at work ;) @makeartnotwarr69

we are here for support and nothing less than that ! I feel the same . my friends are extremely busy so I basically only have my mom, boyfriend and you girls on here to talk to :) it's great ! everyone is great on here besides the few who are rude but hey that's life haha @makeartnotwarr69 @mama_bear you're welcome honey !

girl you are a trooper ! I would be in some serious pain for everyday with the way I've been In pain amd.sore after sex.. I think you need to just look in the mirror and tell yourself you are worth it . I know with pregnancy we get a little.insecure sometimes , well I do personally. I have had arguments where it was mainly out of fear that what if it didn't work and he thinks he can find better . but you know what I realized I am the best , in my eyes from confidence , I am not a bum. I have a degree , I may not have a job because I got fired from being pregnant but I am worth it .I think you should.do the same :) only.point out your positives

. as for him, I learned that pregnancy makes men a little scared .. they are worried about what if I am not a perfect dad . give him time :) hope he turns around and realizes that he has the greatest gift he can ever receive *(you and the baby)

@meganc, I'm happy I can help beautiful! I'm always here if you need to talk ❤ all I have is well 3 friends and my mom, and my sister, to talk with. most of my "friends" are to busy now to care. and I'm really happy I found this app I love helping others as much as I can. @godsgift24 thank you so much! you're so sweet ❤❤

Thank you everyone too @godsgift24 @babyboolala @fatmomma @flowersssxo @momma94 the support is amazing on her and I really needed outta my head y'all helped with that :)

@godsgift24, omg and see me being who I am I give in every day some times twice a day for those exact reason weather be completely into it or not I don't want him finding someone else. Cause I know after the baby those few weeks are gana be real rough on him! But even just fighting without it being about the sex scares me he's gana want someone else. I feel like some men make it hard for us to feel like winners. Damn them lol

@mama_bear, so true and I know I am not the complete same anymore but at least I try and try. And I just needa push the conversation out of him!! Thank you!! @makeartnotwarr69 I am sure he's scared he has a daughter already but they broke up a few weeks after she found out they were oregnant and she lives in another state so he hasn't had to really be around a child or been around a pregnant women before. I've tried asking him if that's it but he's awkward so let's hope I can get it outta him today!! Thank you too!

this is why I love this app. look at all.this support :) @makeartnotwarr69 @mama_bear we are here for you honey !!

girlllll omggg. yessss. I find that with this pregnancy (ftm) I have lost my sex drive .. my man asks for.sex and I try to pleasure him in other ways which I know we don't have to address.. but when it' comes to sec I feel bad , it hurts me and I get swollen.. like its not the best feeling .. but every now and then I do it because I rather him get it from me than cheat.. my father which is a huge asshole, told me well if you don't have sex with him I wouldn't blame him for cheating , we are men.. I didn't wanna hear that ... that's my worst fear .. I got angry and told him my boyfriend isn't you ! not all men cheat when they are in love .. sorry for going off tangents.. but that was so you can see I know what you mean .. men when they don't have sex, they get cranky lol.. but yes it's hard ...it's up to you honey if you wanna continue with the arguments . I feel like maybe it'll go away after pregnancy . I'm holding it out because I love him I know arguments occur in every relationship so it happens . . hope everything works out for you honey ! we are all here to help you if you have an questions or need someone to talk to or to have people take your mind off of it for a while . @babyboolala righttt

to be honest, I was recently in the same boat as you. the best thing you can do is talk to each other. maybe he's nervous about being a father, I know my mood swings are out of control sometimes, and I've yelled at him for nothing at times, I didn't know how to control myself, mainly cuz I've never been in this part of life. it's my first baby and he has come to understand, it's not easy at all. it's all part of pregnancy beautiful. you guys can try and talk it out or have a doctor help you guys ❤

Lol that's okay thank you @fatmomma really does make sense too!! And @flowersssxo I really hope so too April feels so far away!! Lol

lol I knew it was for her :) @fatmomma

@meganc, for u not @godsgift24 my bad ladies enjoy ur day

Thank you @babyboolala it's a hard situation every prayer works. And @godsgift24 he is the most hardest person to try and get things out of. Half the time we fight too it's because I am tired and he wanted to have sex tmi but just gets mad and turns his back towards me because I am tired. And for that I am not just giving in when I am not in the mood I don't find that cool at all. But his space is needed just like mine. I love this man but would rather know before the baby is born if it's gana work or not ya know?! :/

I hope everything comes to place as soon as ur bundle of joy comes into the world ... God bless u mama ❤

Something's happen to really open ur eyes u will be a great mom but never let anyone steal ur joy now smile and think about what ur gaining and not what u maybe losing or have to let go enjoy ur day Hun 😘 @godsgift24

Faith without works is dead! Pray and listen for direction in each situation and then obey God! On the natural side u can be sure ur not easily offended by him and do ur best to not cause an offense! I'll continue to pray with you!😘😘

I can say I know what you're going through.. I have had similar complications within my relationship since I have gotten pregnant , but it takes two people to work it out . sometimes men need their own space for whatever reason just like we do as well.. dont let the stress affect the baby which I know is difficult.to do when I try to stay positive and cry sometimes , but the way I cope is just give him space and watch things on you tube or on TV that make me happy

cleaning and listening to music helps a lot too