Don't be mean ladies. Be happy. Not everyone will agree with your advice if they ask for it or even your choices. All we can do is make the best decisions we can for our babies and our bodies. Even if you know that someone is making a big mistake, in the end, if you share your advice and they don't take it, just know you did your part. I for one do not agree with more than half of what is posted on here about doctors, birth or medication, but I don't let that stop me from encouraging as many as I can and offering advice to those who ask. Here's to us all being happy and creating more of that wonderful hormone oxytocin for our bundles of joy inside of us! :)